Dating123 Posted March 20 Posted March 20 I recently met a man ,been chatting couple of months we live an hour drive away from each other. We had a date went well. He has been very full on, saying I’m one of kind, strong feelings etc. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend, very early days but it been going well so I said yes. However he still on the dating website met on. I said should we delete it he said yes but still on it. I am too waiting for him to delete. Not sure I’d know if he had or not if I delete. This online dating is new to me gave I done right thing please?
glows Posted March 20 Posted March 20 I’d decide if he’s sincere. If you don’t feel he is then block and move on. I wouldn’t even have a discussion as I would consider us both adults and fully aware of ourselves. Breach of trust doesn’t warrant much discussion at such an early stage. if you’re not sure or need closure then ask him what he meant by being in a relationship. Maybe he’s enm or not monogamous? Do you think there’s a misunderstanding?
Gaeta Posted March 21 Posted March 21 Does he still log in his account? When l was online dating, nothing good ever came out of a man 'forgetting' to delete his profile. The sincere daters were more than happy to finally delete their account. If he still logs in his account it means he's still looking or can't stop getting female attention, both reasons are not good news for you. I would tell him, and l did tell this to men doing this to me: *sorry you don't have the type of character l'm looking for in a man, good luck in your search*. 1
smackie9 Posted March 21 Posted March 21 On 3/19/2025 at 9:42 PM, Dating123 said: I recently met a man ,been chatting couple of months we live an hour drive away from each other. We had a date went well. He has been very full on, saying I’m one of kind, strong feelings etc. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend, very early days but it been going well so I said yes. However he still on the dating website met on. I said should we delete it he said yes but still on it. I am too waiting for him to delete. Not sure I’d know if he had or not if I delete. This online dating is new to me gave I done right thing please? He's been love bombing you. This guy isn't sincere. Sounds like a player.
ShyViolet Posted March 22 Posted March 22 Let me get this straight, you went on ONE date with this guy and then he asked you to be his girlfriend and you said yes? You are going about this all wrong. You have agreed to be in a relationship with someone who you barely know.
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