Walt Tiffany Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 So i guy i’ve been seeing a few months has changed within the past few weeks. No longer face times or calls at night, no longer responding to texts, i inquired if he was still married and he got really defensive. Was i wrong to ask given the behavior changes and the fact that he has never invited me to his place….? He rarely makes time to see me anymore claims to be tired or sick or with his sons but i don’t see why this results in no responses to texts. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 16 Share Posted March 16 6 hours ago, Walt Tiffany said: Was i wrong to ask given the behavior changes and the fact that he has never invited me to his place….? I would be feeling skeptical too. What is his reason for not inviting you to his place? Either way, it seems pretty clear that he is letting this fizzle. Link to post Share on other sites
Acacia98 Posted March 16 Share Posted March 16 8 hours ago, Walt Tiffany said: So i guy i’ve been seeing a few months has changed within the past few weeks. No longer face times or calls at night, no longer responding to texts, i inquired if he was still married and he got really defensive. Was i wrong to ask given the behavior changes and the fact that he has never invited me to his place….? He rarely makes time to see me anymore claims to be tired or sick or with his sons but i don’t see why this results in no responses to texts. Whatever his reasons are for behaving the way he's behaving, his actions can only have a negative effect on the development of a relationship between you two. You've noticed the general decline in communication and time spent together. You've tried bringing it up. He's responded defensively. If there's been no effort on his part to course correct or to explain openly and honestly what's happening on his end, you would do well to disengage and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted March 21 Share Posted March 21 Why did you ask if he was still married? If he's recently divorced or separated that question would come across as very passive-aggressive and sarcastic, so it's no surprise he got angry. If you were involved for 'months' and he's never invited you to his home there's something going on there, that's a way of keeping you at a distance. His reasons don't really matter, he's made it clear he's lost interest. "I'm not feeling well" or "I have my kids this week" translates as "we're over". Link to post Share on other sites
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