kindflgirl Posted March 12 Posted March 12 I know this is something I should not act on but need to get it off of my chest. There is an older guy I know through work (at a big hospital) that I have the biggest crush on. We have a chill, platonic friendship and I have not let him know that I am into him. This is something I don’t want to reveal to him, right?!
Interstellar Posted March 12 Posted March 12 (edited) You do look like a sweet, kind fl girl. You can always ask him out for lunch and start there, then talk about what his grandpa did in World War 2 as an icebreaker, only kidding on that part. Edited March 12 by Interstellar 1 1
basil67 Posted March 12 Posted March 12 3 hours ago, kindflgirl said: I know this is something I should not act on but need to get it off of my chest. There is an older guy I know through work (at a big hospital) that I have the biggest crush on. We have a chill, platonic friendship and I have not let him know that I am into him. This is something I don’t want to reveal to him, right?! Is he single? Has he given any suggestion that he's attracted to you? If the answer to either of these questions is "NO" then you need to behave yourself 1
MsJayne Posted March 12 Posted March 12 9 hours ago, kindflgirl said: Yeah I guess that is true. I just don’t want to make a complete fool of myself Run with this. What do you know about him? Is he married, maybe with kids? Is he senior to you? If yes, you could potentially get him in all sorts of trouble. You're not in a TV medical drama, just stick to fantasising about Dr Dreamy .
Author kindflgirl Posted March 12 Author Posted March 12 6 hours ago, Interstellar said: You do look like a sweet, kind fl girl. You can always ask him out for lunch and start there, then talk about what his grandpa did in World War 2 as an icebreaker, only kidding on that part. LOL!! Very funny!! 1
Author kindflgirl Posted March 12 Author Posted March 12 5 hours ago, basil67 said: Is he single? Has he given any suggestion that he's attracted to you? If the answer to either of these questions is "NO" then you need to behave yourself He is single, I do know he lost his wife several years ago I am not sure if he is attracted to me, he has commented on my appearance before but you never know if someone is just being nice or if they mean it in that kind of way you know?
Author kindflgirl Posted March 12 Author Posted March 12 4 minutes ago, MsJayne said: Run with this. What do you know about him? Is he married, maybe with kids? Is he senior to you? If yes, you could potentially get him in all sorts of trouble. You're not in a TV medical drama, just stick to fantasising about Dr Dreamy . He is single, he lost his wife several years ago and he does have two kids. The oldest is my age so I’m sure that makes it all the more weird for him possibly. He is not senior to me, I don’t report to him in any way or anything like that
Recommended Posts