itsover Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 In many of the posts I read by a lot of you on this section, involve talking about "no contact". I'm wondering though, what if it isn't possible to have NC. I live in a small town and recently broke up with my ex of two years. We have the same group of friends and I have to see him atleast 2-3 times a week, whether it be at a party or just hanging out. I don't want to stop going out with my friends just so I don't see him, but it's hard watching him out, having fun with other girls and not me. How do you get over someone when you're constantly being reminded that you're not his anymore and there may be someone else better?
slubberdegullion Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 Sometimes, like in the situation you describe, pure NC isn't possible. The best you can do is to just do what you do normally, and if you happen to bump into him, then so be it. That doesn't mean you have to engage him in conversation or anything (which is the essence of NC anyway).
Author itsover Posted January 11, 2006 Author Posted January 11, 2006 I don't want to watch him with other girls..having fun..exact opposite of the two of us when we were out. Why is it always a no win situation??
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