silktricks Posted January 20, 2006 Posted January 20, 2006 It sounds like you are keeping the communication going between you. I really understand your discomfort. Take good care of each other and I'm sure everything will work out.
EndoftheRope Posted January 20, 2006 Posted January 20, 2006 So talking is no option ? Rather spying ? Talking ceases to be a reasonable option once you realize the other person is lying to you. Where does listening to lies get you?
elmejor Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 He's lost the right to privacy considering his actions. Do not let him turn it around on you. In my prior marriage, I had a short fling. Later I ended up divorcing my husband but I didn't leave him for the other guy. Just because I knew I wasn't happy and he'd never change. Long story short, I've remarried- my current husband was cheated on by his exwife. I have been honest with him about my fling. I also have given him my e mail passwords, he is free to check my cell phone records, etc at any time- because I have NOTHING to hide. Yeah, until a George Clooney-type approaches you and says, "I am irresistably drawn to you, the most beautiful woman I've ever seen...I will spend every waking hour thinking of ways to please you, yada yada yada...." Never say never!
Astarte Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 Talking ceases to be a reasonable option once you realize the other person is lying to you. Where does listening to lies get you? Well, you shouldn't LISTEN to lies, you should TALK and I do firmly believe in women having enough means to put a guy under mental pressure when he lies, women are far more skilled in words than guys are and it should be no problem making him feel, that she knows he's lying and kinda pushing him in a corner.
Presario Posted January 22, 2006 Posted January 22, 2006 (...) women are far more skilled in words than guys are (...) This is very true! You, ladies, are good at this! A couple of times I was talked into saying something and then I felt like a tricked kido.
silktricks Posted January 24, 2006 Posted January 24, 2006 d it should be no problem making him feel, that she knows he's lying and kinda pushing him in a corner. cornered animals tend to strike out.
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