Alwaysunsure Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 Since I broke up with my boyfriend in November, I have met two guys who are both very nice, and seem trustworthy. I'm really not ready for a relationship yet, but I dont mind hanging out and going to the movies or out for drinks, etc. I have not been physical with either one of them...yet. I dont think there is a chance of one seeing me out with the other, because there is a pretty good distance between the two. I dont want to be selfish, I just dont want to make a mistake again, and pick the wrong person to begin a relationship with. Is it wrong for me to be seeing two guys at once?
Forever Searching Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 Heck no, it's not wrong! I'd throw another one in there just for the sake of it! lol! No seriously though I think as long as you don't sleep with both of them unless you really really want to and are comfortable with that kind of situatuion you are doing nothing wrong. You are not exclusive with either of them and you have a right to get to know someone before you make that kind of decision.
witabix Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 Just dating, movies, drinks and no sexual contact. You can do that with as many men as you have time to fit in. (Not in the biblical sense!) You go and enjoy yourself. As an afterthought it may be useful to just drop in the dating other guys bit in a casual way. I am not sure about how good an idea that is, or how you should do it, or even if you should. You are worried by it, hence the post, I just thought you could address your own worry this way.
slubberdegullion Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 Nothing wrong with it at all. Enjoy, have fun. As soon as sex enters the picture, then that's a whole new ball game (pun intended!) but until then, there's nothing even remotely wrong with it.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 No play the field have fun and enjoy life you are still young and have noone to answer to.. Go for it!!
Author Alwaysunsure Posted January 16, 2006 Author Posted January 16, 2006 I feel a million times better! I am new to this dating scene, and sometimes I feel guilty. I do care about other peoples feelings, but as long as it isn't hurting anyone, then it's all good
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted January 16, 2006 Posted January 16, 2006 I'm in a similar situation....and curious as to others' opinions: Does kissing count as a sexual act? You can kiss/hug your friends, right? I told my fwb yesterday, and we were on the same page, that we are just friends...he still wanted sex, but I said no sex. So I gave him a bj and left. Hey, it might be a while before I get to do anything again. Does touching count? Upper/lower? Maybe I will just have to pick one guy....then I can do everything guilt-free!!!
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