sweetdreams Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 So. I have this nice little dilema guys. I am currently in a LDR. It's not working for me. My boyfriend and I were friends before and I know we can be friends after this. It has been really casual. I feel like we are friends anyway. I dont feel at all like we are bf/gf. Well there is this guy that I do like a lot. We have been friends for, good lord, a while. I don't really think he sees me as that. Just as friends. But do I come out and tell him that i like him. You see, he knows that I have a boyfriend. He knows that it is long distance. I mean we have gotten pretty close. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to break any hearts through this situation either. So is there a way I can let my current bf down easily. Maybe I should tell him we could be friends until he can move closer. I don't know what to do here. Thanks for all your help!
Author sweetdreams Posted January 12, 2006 Author Posted January 12, 2006 Ok.. new thing. My LDR has just ended. The ex and I decided we were better off as friends so we got out of it before the relationship got too deep. So now... what do I do about my friend?? I mean will he see that I like him or what?? I don't know.. I really am not sure about what to do. I'm afraid he is too wrapped up in his past relationship to even notice me. He keeps saying things like "I wish I could find someone who would be more devoted and who would just love me. I want someone to fall in love with." I seriously just want to yell at him and say I WILL!! I mean do I come out and tell him or do I just keep my mouth shut until he gets over the ex?? Help?
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