LizMichelle Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 (edited) I do not like my Daughter Cassie's boyfriend at all. Cassie and I do argue about it at times. He is a jerk around her including me. Her father /my ex has had enough too and he can be like the tv show character Al Bundy when he pushes his buttons. Disrespects him and a jerk around him too. She is 18 and started dating him in December. Her boyfriend is just like his dad, I went to high school with his dad and he got it from him. His dad was the same around me although we never dated, was a jerk around me. My ex has had enough of his crap too and about had it. It is getting to get to the point he wants to do this with him https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_McAmwRhWY Trying to tell her she deserves better Edited February 16 by LizMichelle Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 The most you can do is educate her and ensure she’s well informed about safe sex and what an abusive cycle looks like. The most powerful defense a parent can impart is knowledge and confidence to a child. She must be armed with enough knowledge to see what is dangerous and confident enough to walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 4 hours ago, LizMichelle said: He is a jerk around her including me What does he say or do? 4 hours ago, LizMichelle said: My ex has had enough of his crap too and about had it. It is getting to get to the point he wants to do this with him https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_McAmwRhWY I am going to assume both you and your ex know this is incredibly stupid. Do that (or something similar) and your daughter will go running after the boyfriend and forever hate you and her dad. . I am not sure I'd be too proud of claiming similarity to Al Bundy. I not saying you are wrong to be concerned, but there are better ways to handle your misgivings than Daddy Bravado. It almost never goes well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LizMichelle Posted February 16 Author Share Posted February 16 1 hour ago, ExpatInItaly said: What does he say or do? I am going to assume both you and your ex know this is incredibly stupid. Do that (or something similar) and your daughter will go running after the boyfriend and forever hate you and her dad. . I am not sure I'd be too proud of claiming similarity to Al Bundy. I not saying you are wrong to be concerned, but there are better ways to handle your misgivings than Daddy Bravado. It almost never goes well. Has called me the C word that I find offensive and that to her as well.Did call my ex an a-hole Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 6 hours ago, LizMichelle said: Has called me the C word that I find offensive and that to her as well.Did call my ex an a-hole Considering the things you are apparently planning to do to him, it sounds like his opinion of you and your ex might be warranted... Link to post Share on other sites
Author LizMichelle Posted February 16 Author Share Posted February 16 9 minutes ago, Els said: Considering the things you are apparently planning to do to him, it sounds like his opinion of you and your ex might be warranted... Cassie is having 2nd thoughts finally, realizing he is being disrespectful. Had the talk this and realized I was right including her dad, going to dump him on Wednesday. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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