little green Posted January 10, 2006 Posted January 10, 2006 This question might sound stupid, but I am very confused if I love him when I need to make a decision about his move-in request. We have a long history, 5-6 years, including 3 year long-distance. We are still far away from each other, but he is thinking of moving to my city. Our relationship had been on and off a couple of times. We've hurt each other very much. But look back, we treasure what we had and want this to work. I mean, we are good together. We support each other, we enjoy the company of each other, we laugh together, we cook together....nothing seems standing in the way of his request of moving in together. But there is something missing. The passion. I don't miss him. When I was with him, I was happy. But somehow I get used to live alone without thinking of him. Sometimes my calls are out of obligations. It also bothers me that I have the desire to meet new people. Wasn't/Isn't he the one I love? Do I love him? Or I just cannot stand a love without infatuation?
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