flowerbird Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 so i met this woman, we texted a little bit before, but i already understood, that she is not a big texter. she has a busy life and before our first date we went without texting for 5 days.the first date was great. we talked we laughed had food flirtet a little bit . she told me she likes me and asked me if we could see each other again the following week. then she asked if she could kiss me.everything was nice for a first date. i like it slow and not too intense. from the past i know that those dates mostly end in lovebombing and a painful end.so i was glad. she was very honest and told me she had a lot going on at the moment. which i liked she has a life. she borrowed me some of her clothes because it was cold. the next day, i didnt receive a text, so i didnt mind sending one. she replied, sweet. though i was wondering she didnt ask to plan a day for the second date, as she already asked end of the date and i said i would love to. again i thought, ok no problem she already asked, and since everyone has a a life and mostly a busy one, i asked her if she would like to schedule a day for the next week. she read it and never replied , this has been one day ago and i feel like i misunderstood something. also, she gave me some of her personal items, i asked her if she was sure and when she said yes, for me it was a sign that she truly wanted to see me again. im so lost in this i just dont understand. did i miss anything? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 43 minutes ago, flowerbird said: she read it and never replied , this has been one day ago Only one day and you consider this "never" having replied? I think you need to relax and be a little more patient. Don't get too ahead of yourself imagining the worst-case scenario just yet. Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 How/where did you meet this woman? Are you also a woman? Is there a reason you can't ask to set up the second date? Link to post Share on other sites
Author flowerbird Posted February 8 Author Share Posted February 8 @introverted1 we met trough an app. we are both women. the thing is that she asked me for a second date already. and i sent a text to make a plan,like decide for a day. and she doesnt respond.so for me i think she is just not interested anymore Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 @flowerbirdare you sure she isn't married or already involved in a relationship? If she is secretly in the closet about her attraction to women that also would give reason to why she is acting the way she is. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 8 Share Posted February 8 4 hours ago, flowerbird said: she doesnt respond.so for me i think she is just not interested anymore I would give it a couple more days before deciding she isn't interested anymore. Is is not at all plausible that she got caught up with someone else and is still intending on replying? Link to post Share on other sites
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