mortensorchid Posted January 18 Posted January 18 We've all had some kind of relationship in life where it ends badly. For me, it's been a few friendships and romantic relationships that ended with anger or cowardly acts or whatever else. This is not unique by any means, but that's life. Do you ever wonder about someone who always seems to end all their relationships that way? A person who perpetually does nothing but that? I've met a few people who do nothing but cut ties / burn bridges with others. They have some very deep seeded issues within them (they hate themselves, they lash out at others because they want them to feel just as bad as they do about themselves, everything is all about them rather than acknowledging that others have feelings too, being bitter about the past, etc.) which is why they do it. Do they ever feel badly that they go through others like some do Kleenex? I guess that's just how they roll in life.
Gaeta Posted January 18 Posted January 18 No they don't feel bad because everything in life is about them. They do not have the depth to self analyze, see situations from other people perspective. I am not interested in being around these people and l have no brain space to think of why they're like that. It's not important why, it's their problem to solve, their burden to carry.
basil67 Posted January 18 Posted January 18 (edited) It's *deep seated* I can't I have every known someone who does this. But judging by the posts we get here, the people you describe don't feel badly that they "go through others" because they don't see it this way. Instead, they complain about being badly treated by everyone else. They lack the insight required to consider that they may be the problem. Edited January 18 by basil67
basil67 Posted January 18 Posted January 18 Also, we all have to cut off people who aren't good for us. I've done it in the past, and so have you. It could equally be that those who burn bridges simply don't suffer fools gladly. It works both ways.
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