Woggle Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Does anybody here have enough honesty to admit that they hate the opposite sex? I fully admit that I don't trust women until they prove themselves to me. I feel that the majority of women hate men anyway so why require them to earn my trust. It doesn't mean I mistreat them or anything but they have to prove I can trust them until I let them in.
slubberdegullion Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Hate is a powerfully negative word, with all sorts of nasty connotations. About the only thing I hate is my mother's overboiled brussel sprouts. They're enough to gag a maggot. Given the s*** you've been through in the last little while, it's not unexpected to be wary, but I imagine that as you heal your outlook will change for the better.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I will admit that !! In my experience they are out for themselves and care only for number one...If it doesn't benefit them they aren't going to do it!! Not saying all men are like this just from my expierence .....
SmoochieFace Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I will say that I dislike *good-looking* and *party-type* women immensely. I see similar attitudes in them and they turn my stomach. Certainly doesn't mean that I *hate* them or all women though.
alphamale Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 there have been short periods in my life where I have felt great animosity twds women but in general I love them. As as man, once your figure out how to deal with women then life is much happier. It is, however, no easy task to learn to deal with women.
Author Woggle Posted January 9, 2006 Author Posted January 9, 2006 I will admit that !! In my experience they are out for themselves and care only for number one...If it doesn't benefit them they aren't going to do it!! Not saying all men are like this just from my expierence ..... That's because men who are not out for number one get it blown up in their face. It's easier for a man to be a jerk that just uses women. I just think many women get a kick out of manipulating men and sucking us for all they worth. They enjoy seeing men suffer and I think they have worse egos than men.
Craig Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 After my first breakup I thought that I hated women but really I was just feeling hurt and sorry for myself. Like Slubber said, hate is a very powerful word. Now with respect to people (both genders) that do not present themself to me in a way I am comfortable with for various reasons I find that practicing indifference serves me best. Until about 5 years ago I gave out my trust without much thought and led a charmed life in terms of the possible consequences and then reality hit me hard. I have trust issues that I am dealing with right now with respect to both sexes and have decided that I will trust people to be people. To me that means that I can't know if I can fully trust them until they show me who they are and even then I still don't trust people completely--meaning I don't expose my vulnerabilities to others completely. That isn't what I want in my life though and dream of encountering at least one person I can trust completely. My fantasy is that woman would be my SO. Maybe it is just a fantasy but it keeps me going.
JS17 Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I don't discriminate between the sexes. All people suck.
Lil Honey Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Nope, sorry. Can't say that I hate men. In fact, I like 'em . . . a LOT. And one in particular. Anger is an expression of hurt. Hanging onto it serves no purpose after learning from it.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 [/b I hate men/women that think they know it all....
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Does anybody here have enough honesty to admit that they hate the opposite sex? I can understand why you have difficulties with women, given your experience. But I'm pretty keen on them, including as friends I feel that the majority of women hate men anyway Not true. It's very much a minority sport. Probably about the same proportion as men who hate women
Outcast Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I don't hate any group of people. I must admit to being seriously unimpressed with people who think any sort of 'all men/women/gays/blacks/etc' statement can be considered valid. The people I don't trust are people who think that way because, to me, it's a sign that they are not logical and that they have allowed their negative feelings to overtake their rationality. Meaning I couldn't count on them to be impartial or to require fairness or reasonableness of themselves in their dealings with me. have enough honesty to admit that they hate the opposite sex? I am particularly unimpressed with people who say things like 'all women hate men and any woman who says she doesn't is lying'. It is emotionally mature to understand that you may have encountered individuals who ought not have been trusted but that those individuals cannot be considered representative of their entire group.
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I couldn't count on them to be impartial or to require fairness or reasonableness of themselves You and your unreasonable expectations again
lindya Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Does anybody here have enough honesty to admit that they hate the opposite sex? No. In terms of loyalty, goodness and humour, I really couldn't choose between the men and the women in my life. They're all pretty fantastic people. If someone strikes me as obnoxious, I'll just keep them out of my life, so there wouldn't be the opportunity for dislike to grow into hatred. I've gone through periods of hating a specific man, but never men in general.
Outcast Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 You and your unreasonable expectations again I know. It's really unreasonable of me, don't you think? Probably irrational, too.
loony Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Well, as a hardcore feminist, I will admit it. I think most men are not worth it to lick my steel-capped combat boots.
SmoochieFace Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Well, as a hardcore feminist, I will admit it. I think most men are not worth it to lick my steel-capped combat boots. But it's wrong for men to have similar feelings for women, right?
Author Woggle Posted January 9, 2006 Author Posted January 9, 2006 But it's wrong for men to have similar feelings for women, right? She gets mad when I bash women but yet she admits she hates men. cab we say double standard? Honestly I don't hate women I just don't trust them until they prove themselves.
Mz. Pixie Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Gosh, no, I LOVE MEN. The way they look, the way they smell, they way the decent ones behave. I love to see one interacting tenderly with their parents, their children, etc. If I didn't love the opposite sex what would be the point in being with someone of the opposite sex??
JS17 Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 But it's wrong for men to have similar feelings for women, right? I think she was joking around SF.
SmoochieFace Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 She gets mad when I bash women but yet she admits she hates men. cab we say double standard? Honestly I don't hate women I just don't trust them until they prove themselves. Well, I don't hate women either but I do have a marked dislike for a certain type... big *beep* deal... we all have our preferences, right? Anyway, Loony stuck her foot in her mouth with her post. I hope she comes back here to explain how she can justify slamming some guys for their beliefs and at the same time she can walk with zero blemishes.
FataMorgana Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Honestly I don't hate women I just don't trust them until they prove themselves. I think that's a fair assumption to make for both sexes. Do you trust all guys instantly? doesn't anyone new in your life need time to prove themselves one way or another?
SmoochieFace Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 I think she was joking around SF. Sorry. I thought this was a *serious* topic. I will admit I have difficulty knowing who's joking and who's not.
SmoochieFace Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 Ugh, why do guys never get my jokes? I suppose it has to do with how they come across. If they come across as sarcasm then some people may not *get* that they are only jokes.
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