jenkinstyler Posted January 11 Posted January 11 Had been dating this girl since end of November. Had gone on 5 or 6 dates? Seemed to be going well. She had me over for dinner Thursday and it went well. Made out a bit at end of night Had a date planned for tonight and I woke up to this "I really think you are a great man. I’m just not ready to be in a relationship . When you asked me I took a leap of faith but it’s not fair to you when I’m not ready. I think we should cancel today . You did nothing wrong . I just need to focus on work and family right now . Thank you for all the fun we’ve had ." So of course....real or fake? We really did have good times, she is super busy though with work and her kid. She works out of town and lately with the weather shes been stressed out wit traveling and its a new position shes been getting trained on. and ses trying to spend time with her son before he moves out
Carlston Posted January 11 Posted January 11 Thursday did not go nearly as well as you mistakenly believe. I recall a girl once said to me on a first date, let's kiss that will tell me if we're compatible. I guess she liked it, we lasted for several months and broke up for unrelated reasons. In your case she probably didn't feel it. 1
Gebidozo Posted January 11 Posted January 11 1 hour ago, jenkinstyler said: So of course....real or fake? What do you mean? She is not interested in having a relationship with you. Obviously, this is real.
Gaeta Posted January 11 Posted January 11 The ex called her back. How long she had neen single when you met?
ShyViolet Posted January 11 Posted January 11 I don't understand your question. What do you mean "real or fake?" Are you looking for some kind of straw to grasp that maybe she is actually still into you and she didn't mean it? You're not going to get that. She has let you know she doesn't want to continue dating you. Whether you think the reasons she gave are true or not, it doesn't matter. Dust yourself off and move on. Don't cling to false hopes that maybe she didn't mean it. She wouldn't have sent that text if she didn't mean it. 2
Author jenkinstyler Posted January 17 Author Posted January 17 now she randomly texts me "i really had a wonderful time with you"
basil67 Posted January 18 Posted January 18 22 hours ago, jenkinstyler said: now she randomly texts me "i really had a wonderful time with you" Block her. She's just a timewaster
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