Keeves1 Posted January 6 Posted January 6 (edited) Hey! I’ve been dating this girl named Juniper. We’ve already had our first date which was coffee date and I’ve already set up the second date which we are going to try a new restaurant. (We walked around Oslo after the coffee. It’s currently snowing and cold so outdoor activities is not an option) But I’m not sure if only having dinner is enough for a second date or is it? If not, then I will listen to other advice on what I can add to the second date Juniper is a girl who likes theater, Karate, music, walking and gaming. Edited January 6 by Keeves1
Author Keeves1 Posted January 6 Author Posted January 6 13 minutes ago, Miss Chrysalis said: Live music or an open mic night somewhere? Good idea! I checked the prices and it’s 65$ for one hour. Yeah not gonna happend
Miss Chrysalis Posted January 6 Posted January 6 12 minutes ago, Keeves1 said: Good idea! I checked the prices and it’s 65$ for one hour. Yeah not gonna happend We might be having a language issue. Listening to live music at a bar or coffee shop is what I meant. Or attending/listening to an open mic night which is usually free (amateurs performing). I'd be surprised if either one of things was $65 an hour. Are you talking about a karaoke room?
Author Keeves1 Posted January 6 Author Posted January 6 11 hours ago, Miss Chrysalis said: We might be having a language issue. Listening to live music at a bar or coffee shop is what I meant. Or attending/listening to an open mic night which is usually free (amateurs performing). I'd be surprised if either one of things was $65 an hour. Are you talking about a karaoke room? My bad for misunderstanding yeah I meant the karaoke room 1
Gaeta Posted January 6 Posted January 6 Hello Keeves, You live in a city that people travel thousands of miles to visit, I am sure if you google 'date ideas in Oslo' you will have some interesting suggestions. I know that temperature is relative, I see in Oslo you have -5 Celsius. That's not a bad temperature when you're well dressed. Here in Canada we have winter festivals and we're out at -25. You have any winter festival in Oslo? A downtown neighborhood that's lite up with activities? You are a Nordic country you have to embrace it! Go skating after the restaurant! 2
Foxhall Posted February 8 Posted February 8 On 1/6/2025 at 2:44 AM, Keeves1 said: Good idea! I checked the prices and it’s 65$ for one hour. Yeah not gonna happend I get a sense you talked yourself out of it, women will pick up on any lack of enthusiasm very quickly so Im not surprised things have broken down, you need to be on top of your game be fully intent and committed to showing your lady a good time and be prepared to put in the proper effort to woo and impress her and win her over, a potential love interest getting any sense of your highlighted comment there will not be inspired. Anyway I have made a lot worse mistakes in my relationship history so who am I to criticise, but that's a message worth giving you I think- "If you like her enough you must be fully committed to showing her a good time" If you dont there will be plenty of other guys ready to step in.
Author Keeves1 Posted February 8 Author Posted February 8 20 minutes ago, Foxhall said: I get a sense you talked yourself out of it, women will pick up on any lack of enthusiasm very quickly so Im not surprised things have broken down, you need to be on top of your game be fully intent and committed to showing your lady a good time and be prepared to put in the proper effort to woo and impress her and win her over, a potential love interest getting any sense of your highlighted comment there will not be inspired. Anyway I have made a lot worse mistakes in my relationship history so who am I to criticise, but that's a message worth giving you I think- "If you like her enough you must be fully committed to showing her a good time" If you dont there will be plenty of other guys ready to step in. I’ve not been consistent updating here on how the dates have been progressing with each of the girls that I have been on a date with. With Juniper she never said a word about not being interested, she just came up with excuse such as she being busy because alot of things happening at work, at home, to arrange camping trip with her team etc. I don’t care if it true or not she said it because she don’t want to meet me and I saw it through her that she didn’t want to keep this going but did not have the heart to say it so I did instead. Even before that I notice her taking longer than usual to send me snaps back and we lost streak. She just literally gave me a feeling og being passive which is not a good sign. Sorry but I don’t think I talked myself out of it. I was the one who took iniative with the plans and I tried my best to be on top of my game (that can mean alot of things) such as holding a convo going, being intimate, tellings jokes altough I’m not the funny ones. We’ve been on 5 dates and we did not even kiss. To be fair she has not had sex before and asian girls are shy usually. I try my best in every dates I’ve been attending it’s just the girls I’ve met is not matching my vibe and on top of that they don’t have much in common with me. Me and Juniper only had gaming as a common interest. I’m not saying all girls need to match in vibe and interest. My ex and I did not have much in common but we both share the same outlook on life and we had same life goals at that time
Gebidozo Posted February 8 Posted February 8 53 minutes ago, Keeves1 said: Me and Juniper only had gaming as a common interest. Really? Then why would you want to have a relationship with a person with whom you have so little in common?
Miss Chrysalis Posted February 9 Posted February 9 On 2/7/2025 at 3:40 PM, Keeves1 said: Yeah my date with Juniper is off. I'm sorry to hear this, Keeves. Is there a reason? 1
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