cooljack23 Posted January 2 Posted January 2 How do you balance taking things slow in a relationship with showing genuine interest and commitment?
Author cooljack23 Posted January 2 Author Posted January 2 She don't want to rush it to a relationship. We just started today is 17 days in relationship.
Gebidozo Posted January 2 Posted January 2 1 hour ago, cooljack23 said: She don't want to rush it to a relationship. We just started today is 17 days in relationship. Can you please be more specific? What is “rushing it to a relationship”? Do you mean that she doesn’t call it a relationship yet? Or that she acknowledges the relationship but doesn’t want to rush certain things? If so, what things are those? Anyway, 17 days is way too little to be making any evaluations at all. Whatever it is, it’s too early to put labels on it.
Gaeta Posted January 2 Posted January 2 At 17 days you show interest, it's too early to offer commitment. You show your interest by inviting her out on dates, asking her about her interests, goals, dreams, family, her work. Remember what she says and follow up on what she says. If she says she has a big meeting you can ask how was the meeting. Relationships cannot be forced. If you like each other, if you make each other feel special, you both will want to spend your free time together, you will grow attached and fall in love. You have to give it time but not too much time. If after 5-6 dates she does not want to be exclusive then you need to let her go. 1
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