Man so she came back around...

[Dookie_Dont]

So me and this chick were talking and hanging out some, but then she never called for like forever. And I didn't call her because I was being stubborn about it all. Then she gets on the internet and IM's me talking about how I've been gone and stuff. So we talked forever on the phone. And we made plans to hang out.

 

But she had to do some stuff, so she told me to call later in the day like noon. So I did, got no answer. Called again, somebody answers the phone saying she isn't there and that she'll be back later. I was like cool.

 

Well hours went by without a call, so I called again. Once again they said she was on her way home actually. I was like awsome. Never got a call, so we didn't get to do ****. And we didn't get to talk to each other.

 

Seems to me this girl is playing games, hard to get? I mean what do you all think, she sure as hell showed signs of liking me. And I like her too, but why all this drama?

 

Advise me.

 

Thanks

[Dookie_Dont]

Bumpy Bump?

 

Today I did get to talk to her, and shes like I'm going to be out in town. And I mean she could of just waited till we were done with work. But she had already left! Expected me to go out and find and chase her down I assume.

 

Seems to me hard to get? Toying with me? What you all think? No opinions on the situation?

[My_Other_I]

I don't think she's interested.

You sound young, so I assume so is she. She might have thought she wanted to give it a shot and change her mind later, and she is not mature enough to tell you so. She might feel guilty about it.

But she still wants to have you as a backup for attention....cuz it just feels sooooo good to have guys chasing after you when you are immature.

She's playing games with you, I wouldn't give her a second thought. Stop calling her, and when she calls you in few days (and she will, wondering why you stopped chasing after her since she's the best), tell her you have other plans. Forget her, she's a waste of time for you.

[Dookie_Dont]

Well guys I dropped her. I haven't called her since our last attempt to make plans and I no longer talk to her at work. Acting like I could really care less.

 

But shes now staring at me from time to time. What bad is, as much as I'm trying to distant myself from the feelings I can't. I really do like her way too much. SHe leaves as soon as work is over, I don't talk to her. But I do find her looking at me from time to time.

 

So these stares are? What? Another hope, or her just worried that shes been replaced? So much lost here, when I thought I had so much to gain.

[whichwayisup]

I think you called her too many times. One call would have done it. Maybe she felt pressured?

 

The fact now she hasn't called you, or spoken to you at work says volumes. Remember, actions speaks louder than words at times and her actions are saying she's not into you. I know that hurts and that you like her, but why think and waste energy on someone who isn't interested?

 

Try your best to not pay attention to her at work, keep busy. She probably feels abit uncomfortable and that is why she is looking at you.

 

OR...

 

If you want to know why, ask her. Go over and tell her that she could have told you upfront she wasn't interested and not calling you back wasn't cool. See how she reacts to that. I don't know. I think though, not knowing what she thinks or feels is going to drive you crazy until you talk to her. Atleast if it isn't what you want to hear, you will know and then be able to move on.

[Weye]

She's toying with you. Ignore the stairs. Don't talk to her. If she talks to you, bust her for what she pulled. Find a new girl, this one's not worth your attention.

[Dookie_Dont]

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