laylasmith1347 Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 My problems not that big but I'm just really frustrated. I'm in a group of four at school right and we were planning to meet up because we havent seen eachother for a few weeks and anyways the day before we met up two of the girls starting like not being that keen and like "i give up we're not very good at making plans" "maybe next month in januray" like it was out of no where because we had planned something really easily right. But anyways I didn't think much of it and then the next day the two girls who weren't so keen posted on their story that they were hanging out together and they didn;t even tell me and the other girl in our group. So bascially they just cancelled our groups plan so they could meet up together wouthout us AND then have the audacity to post about it. AND the big dilema is I'm having a party in like two weeks and they are like my two closest friends and Idk if im being dramatic but now i dont want to do it anymore ANYWAYs should I ask them about it or should I just move on? Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 For whatever reason, they are making it clear that they don't want to hang out with you. This isn't just an accident. They are purposely excluding you. Maybe them posting it is their way of even further sending you a message that they don't want to hang out with you. I would probably just stop speaking to them and move on. But if you've been friends with them for a long time and this is out of the blue, it may be worth confronting them. Don't expect anything to come of it though. You can't argue someone into being friends with you. If they don't want to be your friend, don't waste any of your energy arguing with them. You're literally just wasting your time. Link to post Share on other sites
Keeves1 Posted January 1 Share Posted January 1 I think you are so brave to tell us about it. For me it seems like they don’t want to include you and those people cannot be called for «friends» I’m sorry to say this but I don’t think they are your friends and you would be better off without them. You mentioned that you have a party in two weeks and they are invited. You could either go on and let them be at your party or you could say that there won’t be any more party and just do the same thing as they did to you so they can feel a little bitter taste in their mouth, but be careful. Sometimes in life we don’t always get along with certain people and you’d start to see maybe they are not that «type» of friends that fits your personality Link to post Share on other sites
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