Are all women like this? Is this normal?

[lukkkkadoncic]

I need help

I'm dating a women I would like to have a relationship with

But sometimes I find her tiring..it seems there's always something wrong or she has something to complain about.

She feels sick, her family annoy her, she's having a break out on her skin etc 

My mother is similar there's always something that's wrong or she is complaining about something 

Same with my sister 

 

But I just want to know is this normal that all women do this when you're close to them?

 

It's honestly exhausting and some days I just want peace/positivity then this women complains about something to me and I always need to comfort her

[basil67]

8 hours ago, lukkkkadoncic said:

t's honestly exhausting and some days I just want peace/positivity then this women complains about something to me and I always need to comfort her

If she's exhausting, a relationship with her would be horrible.  Look for someone more positive

Regarding complaining, it's not a gendered issue.  Some people complain a lot, some people complain a bit and some people rarely complain. 

[Gebidozo]

No, not all women are like this. Some people are like this, regardless of gender.

A relationship with a person who has a negative attitude and keeps complaining is exhausting. I suggest you start looking for someone with a more positive attitude and outlook. Life is difficult enough already to add that kind of negativity that drags everyone down.

[BaileyB]

Not all women are like this…

I wouldn’t comfort her - she needs to learn how to manage her own emotions.

I would ignore her complaints and end the relationship if you can’t deal with it. 

Edited December 27, 2024 by BaileyB

[smackie9]

It's a normal occurrence, but not normal for a healthy relationship. It takes all kinds....so this is why we date...to see what they are like...she's driving you bonkers...it's normal to say this isn't working out, I'm ending this. 

[Ami1uwant]

If you are in a relationship and are open to talk about things, you are going to hear complaints.  
 

my question is why is it stressing you out?

[introverted1]

On 12/26/2024 at 8:48 PM, lukkkkadoncic said:

My mother is similar there's always something that's wrong or she is complaining about something 

Same with my sister 

It sounds like you are drawn to women who have this characteristic in common.  It may be that you subconsciously are drawn to it, even though on a conscious level you dislike it. I don't think it's a trait that all women share.