Ganz7 Posted December 26, 2024 Share Posted December 26, 2024 (edited) Hey everyone. Hope you all had a good Christmas. Its been a few years since I posted on this forum. Would like to say how finding this forum helped me a lot getting through my breakup all those years ago. I was thinking recently that I have kept no contact for over 10 years now. Blocking her on facebook etc so I wouldn't get her and her husband popping up as suggested friends. What is the longest anyone has kept NC going? Edited December 26, 2024 by Ganz7 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 26, 2024 Share Posted December 26, 2024 (edited) "No Contact" is a phrase used for when you're starting to move on without them and are making a conscious decision to keep space. If you haven't spoken to them in 10 years, then it's simply that you've moved on. Good on you Edited December 26, 2024 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted December 26, 2024 Share Posted December 26, 2024 I don’t think this qualifies as “no contact” in the usual sense of “a period of time during which a person deliberately avoids contact that would have caused emotional turmoil and forestall mental healing”. You’ve probably just moved on. Otherwise, the longest time I haven’t had any contact whatsoever with an ex, haven’t searched her online, received no updates or information about her, and so on, would be about 25 years, I guess. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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