littlelaxer Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 My ex and i broke up over a year and a half ago. its been nothing but a crazy mess with since. through out the whole time he never would completely go away. his reasons for breakin up were that he was to young...didnt know what he wanted. so i let him go. i never called him he called me. i told him often to leave me a lone but somehting would come up and we would get in contact. a couple months ago he told me he still loved me but still didnt know what he wanted completely. so i wrote him a note telling him i cared about him very much but i couldnt take it anymore and that he is to leave me alone. he got mad and he did. during this i have had a new bf for about 3 months now. last night was my 21st bday and the first time i have ever drank. i thought it was a good idea to call him. he was out drinkin too. we talked for awhile i rememeber everything. he was like i want to see u i said no. i got off the phone and it was back and forth all night. today i woke up and i had a voicemail from him saying for me to call him back. i called him and he told me he had been on the phoen all morning talkin about me to his friends on what he should do.... as it turns out he says he wants me back. he misses me and he made a mistake he says. and hes leaving the ball in my court to decide what i want. i told him i dont know i have a bf. i said i just dont know. i said its not going to take 1 phone call its gonna take mroe then that. how do i know ur not going to change ur mind in a week or so. he said im gonna keep trying. he called me later this afternoon too tellin me what he was doing. i dont know what to think really. its been such a long time and i do care about him i just dont know
bluechocolate Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 My guess is you don't know because you keep having this on-again/off-again contact with the guy. Did you 'know' when you started going out with your current b/friend? By that I mean he stopped contacting you - you went out with someone else - now you're in touch again - now you're unsure. My vote - write him off. Delete his number from your phone. Tell him to stop calling you. Don't call him again. 'I don't know', is no a basis on which to rekindle a relationship.
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