Anonymous_struggler Posted January 8, 2006 Posted January 8, 2006 I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and for 99% of that time, we've been really happy. She leaves uni this year and we have discussed moving in together when she does, something which for the last couple of years i've looked forward to. Now, i'm sitting here and wondering whether she is the one for me. I have never really believed in there just being one person for everyone, but for some reason, I have it in my head that I have to know that I love here and she is the one before we move in together - is this generally nerves which most people feel or am i being overly cautios ? There have been no problems between us and nothing has changed in our relationship to start me thinking this way....
bluechocolate Posted January 9, 2006 Posted January 9, 2006 ...for some reason, I have it in my head that I have to know that I love her and she is the one before we move in together I don't know about her being 'the one', but I certainly know that if you are unsure about whether you love her you should certainly not start living together. There have been no problems between us and nothing has changed in our relationship to start me thinking this way.... I'd put it down to nerves then.
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