Boyfriend thinks I need to get over my insecurities

[Ghosy]

My (21f) boyfriend (22m) thinks I need to work on my insecurities. I do not think he should have had a lesbian woman he met by randomly adding people on snapchat stay in his Rv with him for 5 days straight and invited her to friends giving. I want him to end the relationship but he wont. 

[NuevoYorko]

You've done all you can, he knows how you feel about this.   It seems like you're incompatible.  Wouldn't you be happier with a man who wouldn't choose to do that? 

[BaileyB]

Clearly, you are not ok with this or you would not have posted. When you feel disrespected in a relationship, it’s best to end the relationship. 

[Ghosy]

Yep, thats why i want to break up and if he cant get rid of her im not interested 

[smackie9]

This should be a deal breaker. No second chances just leave. He's disrespected you enough.

[basil67]

Is this the same boyfriend who sprayed a nitrous cannister up a woman's rear end?   Why are you still with him?

[NuevoYorko]

The guy has no boundaries and is veering towards completely out of control.   If you do not actually enjoy his *unusual* behaviors that you describe here and in your other thread, you need to step away.  That's WHO HE IS and WHAT HE LIKES.  He's not going to change into a different person because you want him to.

[Gaeta]

This has nothing to do with insecurities. His behavior is highly innapropriate. This is 'breakup' material! 

[MsJayne]

Your BF sounds like a massive douche. Never trust someone who accuses you of insecurity/jealousy when you call them out on questionable behaviour. 

[ExpatInItaly]

13 hours ago, Ghosy said:

Yep, thats why i want to break up and if he cant get rid of her im not interested 

So...go ahead and break up with him. 

It's not his fault that you won't walk away, either. Are you usually this passive about your own life?