NTYCE Posted January 8, 2006 Posted January 8, 2006 ok, i broke up with my ex about 5 years ago. and after the seperation, we went our own ways, didnt talk to each other or anything, so after 5 years i got a call from her and after a few days of talking, we decided to meet up and go out. bad decision? im starting to have feelings for her again, the reason we broke up in the first place was because things were too serious, she was marriage material, she's a great person and i loved every moment of it but i wasnt ready for anything like that at the time and i got scard so i ran for it (stupid decision, i know). but now i am regretting the decision. so confused, and not sure if i should tell her how i feel now. wat should i do??
bluechocolate Posted January 8, 2006 Posted January 8, 2006 If the topic comes up, instigated by her, then by all means tell her how you feel about it. Until then, I'd say keep your mouth shut. 5 years is a long time to be apart & if this relationship is going to be rekindled there's a lot of rebuilding to be done. First you need to establish whether she's even interested in starting something again. The fact that she called you is a good sign, though it could also mean she's over you to the point where she thinks you two can be friends.
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