lilmoma1973 Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 You're welcome. Just read the part about her attacking you. Plainly and simply this is one lying, cheating, crazy b---h. As others have said, I'd cut off all contact and plan on obtaining a restraining order, not because it will do anything, but it will protect you when she inevitably pulls some 'he tried to attack me' stuff. At this point, protecting yourself, including your heart, is paramount. As you said, you will survive. All the best. I totally agree with Seven ,she is a crazy b@@ch and you do need to protect yourself!!!!!!!
Author witabix Posted January 7, 2006 Author Posted January 7, 2006 Lilmona, there is not one human being on this planet I fear. There is no physical injury I fear. There is nothing I fear. Except... Deception of my heart.
whichwayisup Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Witabix, my heart feels for the pain you're in tonight. Please DO take good care of yourself...And don't leave LS. You need us all right now and shutting down to be alone is not a good idea. Keep venting it out, cry and scream! But don't isolate yourself... Try to get some sleep. Hugs, WWIU
Author witabix Posted January 7, 2006 Author Posted January 7, 2006 You're welcome. Just read the part about her attacking you. Plainly and simply this is one lying, cheating, crazy b---h. As others have said, I'd cut off all contact and plan on obtaining a restraining order, not because it will do anything, but it will protect you when she inevitably pulls some 'he tried to attack me' stuff. At this point, protecting yourself, including your heart, is paramount. As you said, you will survive. All the best. I have no fear Sevenmack, This is an emotion I am totally unfamiliar with, she will not say that I tried to attack her, I could not defend myself aginst her.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Witabix, my heart feels for the pain you're in tonight. Please DO take good care of yourself...And don't leave LS. You need us all right now and shutting down to be alone is not a good idea. Keep venting it out, cry and scream! But don't isolate yourself... Try to get some sleep. Hugs, WWIU WWIU is right we will be here and stay you need someone !!!!
lilmoma1973 Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Lilmona, there is not one human being on this planet I fear. There is no physical injury I fear. There is nothing I fear. Except... Deception of my heart. We all fear deception of the heart!!!!!
Author witabix Posted January 7, 2006 Author Posted January 7, 2006 Again, thank you all. I want to vent right now. She had been sexually abused. I took advice from a friend of mine who had also been abused. He gave me some pointers that I followed. Be understanding and caring basically. I was, I was also protective, but thats in my nature. We had an understanding, I gave an inch, she took a mile. She said all that was in my other post, so that I won't have to repeat myself. I feel like a fool. Taken for a ride. But I will still say this, even in in all this pain. I do not believe for a moment that all women are like this. Nor do I believe that all women who have been abused are like this I may find someone someday that understands me. I would also say that I still believe in love, even at this time. It is a good thing that I had LS to come to. I have no idea what would have happpened to me had this forum not been there. You are truly a resource for the damaged people to come to, however I now feel as though I have taken more than I have given. Perhaps I can repay someone with equality in a future time. I honestly do appreciate all your thoughts and feelings, I really do. Thank you all so much. I feel better than I could I have possibly hoped for, and stronger, at least when I get some sleep I will.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Did you get the rep point i gave to you? Thought you deserved after what you went through... 1
Gold Pile Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Silver lining. You now know the truth about her. You know she can't be trusted. Time to end it.
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