Lishy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Sorry Walk he is mine! Has been for a while we kept it on the low! Shall we take this to the cheaters forum?
Lishy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 when I called him sweetie it sounded wifely to me - lol
FataMorgana Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I agree with what both walk and johan said. I think that the average person has always had to work on being a better person on the inside. When I first posted I was really thinking about the people who have little sense of right and wrong...perhaps it is because they were always able to get away with more. I agree with them as well. Hence generally you are always beter off having a relationship with the "average" person as they are people who know themselves and their limitations better...well, most of the times anyway. I do agree with JS as well that the very few really good looking and succesful men I had come across had little sense of right and wrong, were quite vain and used to always get their way... I used to laugh at this thinking someone has to give them some of the same medicine... might as well be me:laugh:
Walk Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Sorry Walk he is mine! Has been for a while we kept it on the low! Shall we take this to the cheaters forum? Nooooooooooooooooo!!!!!! You'll kick my azz!!!
Lishy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I couldnt kick your ass ... cos it's too cute! We can share him? Do you think he could handle us both?
Outcast Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I believe lindya's stolen his heart, ladies. You'll need a lot of air miles to go kick her butt and then collect him
slubberdegullion Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 My heart is gonna be locked up for a while, ladies. But the rest of me is rarin' to go.
Fun2BMe Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 This is true JS17 to a certain extent. It has to do mainly with intelligence. In general, the more physically attractive a person is (male or female) the less intelligent they tend to be. This is not always true but it is a fair co-relation. So therefore we can extrapolate that the dumber one is, in general, the more issues he or she will have. Understand? It's true that good looking people have more issues - more of a life, more people attracted to them, more of everything - and what naturally follows is more issues, but keep in mind both GOOD and bad. I get a lot of free things because I"m good looking - if I go to a drive through and ask for "extra" this or that, even if it's a girl she'll throw in a lot of freebies in my bag and that's a small example. I rarely have to stand in line, if I am at a gas station more than half the time a man will offer to fill up my car and the list goes on and I know it's about my looks because they haven't gotten to know me or anything. So the more people who are initiating involvement in a good looking person's life, the more chances of both good and bad issues coming up. More dates mean more heartaches, more promises made by different people mean more chances of experiencing broken promises and so on and it can have an effect on the person experiencing them regardless of their IQ level or level of self esteem. Why I think it's not related to intelligence is that the same issues follow people who are artificially attractive - through plastic surgeries and spending a fortune on stylists. A smart person might make looking good a priority, just like the next person might make watching the football game a priority. To each their own. You can't judge that that person's decision is better or worse than yours because your decisions could be really lame to someone else. Let's not pretend it's all about the inside! Let's be real. Some things have nothing to do with brains or the insides, but it is artificially plain old LOOKS and APPEARANCES. It does sound safer to think it's all about the inside because that gives us the sense of having more control.
Outcast Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Let's not pretend it's all about the inside! Let's be real. Some things have nothing to do with brains or the insides, but it is artificially plain old LOOKS and APPEARANCES. What is? :o
Walk Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I couldnt kick your ass ... cos it's too cute! We can share him? Do you think he could handle us both? Shyt, Lish... I don't think he could handle just YOU, let alone both of us. I'm not so sure I wanna be apart of this anymore..... some guy who's locked up? Rarin' to go? Sounds like a geriatic with a small bladder who got stuck in the bathroom.
Walk Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I'd be willing to bet that my average looking body has been through the same emotional baggage that your exceptional looking body could have gone through. Probably more so at this point. Do you really think that because a guy held your nozzel at a gas station that it would give you emotional baggage and psychologic problems? I don't think it has to do with the number of men who hit on girl, but the way they are treated. Treated as if they are special, or better then others. So if this isn't catered to, the girl throws a fit. (or guy) How horrible would it be to base your identy on being a beautiful woman, knowing men are more interested in your body, then personality... Only to find that you can't compete with the 18-20 year olds anymore. Your skin is sagging, your breasts are sagging, your hair isn't as vibrant.. and no amount of money will ever return you to your former glory. I've also associated extreme good looking with the words 'spoiled brat'. (There are exceptions...)
phyrespryte Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 We had this thread already but I find the skinnier I am the more I get used or played. Not sure if it's a direct correlation to being more attractive or feeling better about myself. I'm about average looking and I'm REALLY messed up. That's some weird stuff. Before I got contacts and lost some weight I noticed that people tended to be more straightforward with me and come to me for answers. Like people knew that I wasn't stupid or really didn't care what I thought. Now people seem to be less honest with me. Mostly it's just guys trying to make themselves sound impressive. Sometimes women spread lies about me, but that's usually more mean spirited. I wonder if it's because people think good looking = idiot?
lindya Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I think what you said is ridiculous and insane. Having difficulties in life is an individual thing and has nothing to do with one's looks. It has more to do with upbringing and life choices. How old are you? 2? What's your problem? JS17 introduced a topic for discussion. A number of people have participated - so clearly it created interest and debate, which is one of the purposes of this forum.
loony Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Can we say then that if we have issues that we know we are good looking ??? I definitely like this conclusion!!
Steph21 Posted January 8, 2006 Posted January 8, 2006 I think there's not necessarily a relation between looks and issues, but maybe if your looks change. Like if you were normal-looking and then later "grow into your looks" or otherwise become more attractive, it can be hard to deal with people's altered perception of you. Guys never really noticed me and then in the last year or so I've suddenly been getting lots of attention. This has created problems because other girls have noticed this too and don't invite me out as much anymore, and also I've had to try to not get too excited about it. It's like how winning the lottery really messes up a lot of people's lives, even though you'd think it would make things easier.
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