JS17 Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I have this weird theory that many (not all) really good looking people have lots of issues? I feel like the more attractive the person, the more issues they have. For some reason when this theory is rolling about in my brain the thought of that really hot teacher in the US that slept with her 14 year old student pops into my head. (I forget her name) It's kind of a dumb theory and generalizing is kind of rediculous but I can't help but notice these patterns.
SmoochieFace Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Well, as they say, *good looking* people in general tend to have more people and situations in their lives which are both directly and indirectly related to their looks so as a result they have more opportunities to have *issues*.
Yamaha Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 How are you defining really good-looking? ( a 9 or 10 )
Author JS17 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 As in the more traditionally good looking the person is, the more loony toons they are.
alphamale Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I have this weird theory that many (not all) really good looking people have lots of issues? I feel like the more attractive the person, the more issues they have.. This is true JS17 to a certain extent. It has to do mainly with intelligence. In general, the more physically attractive a person is (male or female) the less intelligent they tend to be. This is not always true but it is a fair co-relation. So therefore we can extrapolate that the dumber one is, in general, the more issues he or she will have. Understand?
Author JS17 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 I un-ignored that post Alpha because I just couldn't wait to see what brilliant words you posted to this thread. It was a stupid theory so I expected stupid answers.
Outcast Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 In general, the more physically attractive a person is (male or female) the less intelligent they tend to be. This is not always true but it is a fair co-relation. So therefore we can extrapolate that the dumber one is, in general, the more issues he or she will have. "Pulling something out of your butt" is not considered relevant, authoritative, or useful when it comes to addressing matters which can be observed and studied. Show us the studies that prove your claims. Oh wait, I know. Very good-looking women reject you ergo they aren't very intelligent
Neptune Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Quote Outcast Show us the studies that prove your claims This really is not necessary here because this is a disscussion forum and not a scientific debate. But it reminds me: For centuries learned people did not think it possible that rocks could fall out the sky (meteors) because of something Aristotle said. And learned people considered Aristotle irrefutable. However, common folk were well aware that rocks fell out the sky for many centuries. Somewhere a big enough rock fell out the sky in France I think it was before science declared that rocks fell out the sky. The point being that simply observations can be well advanced of scientifc proof.
Art_Critic Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I have this weird theory that many (not all) really good looking people have lots of issues? I feel like the more attractive the person, the more issues they have. Can we say then that if we have issues that we know we are good looking ???
Author JS17 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 Can we say then that if we have issues that we know we are good looking ??? LS must be the hottest group of people around then! Apparently I'm the hottest
Outcast Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 This really is not necessary here because this is a disscussion forum and not a scientific debate. Mmhmm. Right. Reminds me of the story of the five blind men and an elephant.
slubberdegullion Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Mmhmm. Right. Reminds me of the story of the five blind men and an elephant. The first guy said, "Hey, it's wrinkled! Must be a raisin!" The second guy said, "Hey, it's wrinkled over here too! Maybe it's a prune!" The third guy said, "Wow, it's pretty stinky for a prune. Maybe it's a very odiferous passionfruit." The fourth guy was asleep underneath a palm tree, so he just snored. The fifth guy said, "Oh, I dunno. It's kinda hairy, too. Ever seen a hairy passionfruit?" Whereupon the other non-sleeping guys said, "No, you a**h***, we've never seen anything. We're blind. Gawd... whattajerk!"
slubberdegullion Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Pay no heed. I've haddafew... makes mental note to not try to make a phunny after more than three glasses of wine...
Author JS17 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 I'm jealous. I don't get to start to drink for another 4 hours.
Lishy Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I agree with you JS17!!!!!!!! Not so much about issues but about self esteem and bad attitude. I think that the REALLY good looking people are far more insecure - This is my logic ok ........ The better looking people are used to compliments and being given lots of attention. SO when a BETTER looking person comes along or when they are just not getting that limelight they take it personal and start to get depressed. It is a strive to always be the best. But because they think they are 'all that' and a bag of peanuts, they don't feel the need to try so hard. Whereas us 'normal' looking people are used to taking a back seat so when we get some attention we just enjoy it and dont expect it! We are not so self obsessed and worried about what everyone thinks of us so we kick back and enjoy ourselves more, giving the imrpession that we are more fun to be around. So when we look in the mirror and wish we looked like Cindy Crawford we should hold our hands together and thank god we are just ordinary looking cos we are much more fun to be around!
johan Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I think physically attractive people have a somewhat different reality. They tend to be listened to more and included in things, even hired, for things that have nothing to do with who they really are. I think it would be demoralizing to be a hot woman who can never tell whether people are listening to her because of how valuable her ideas are or how pretty she is. And I think it would be easy to rely on your looks for things that would be harder to get otherwise. I can see how this might contribute to "issues". But if I think about the people I've known, they all seem screwed up in some way. I've seen some major egos and emotional problems from some pretty average-looking people. I wouldn't rank the good-looking ones any higher on the issues scale. Maybe it's just that the good-looking ones think they can get away with more. Because they've always been allowed to.
Lishy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Yes Johan you said it so much better - except good looking people dont have to try so hard so they dont know how - Things come easier to them - But when things dont go their way they get more affected by it 1
Walk Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 I think it's because of people, like my brother, who's idea of the perfect mate is blonde with big knockers. Doesn't matter what's inside as long as the outside is "hot". The women he dates are psycho! I think it's to do with the fact that he excuses their behavior. She can get away with murder as long as she keeps up her appearance. As for the average, or less then average girl. IMO, I have to try harder, be better in bed, better listener, more entertaining... etc. In order to get the "good" guy. Otherwise, what's to make him chose me over the hot blonde if we're both bytches?
Author JS17 Posted January 7, 2006 Author Posted January 7, 2006 We had this thread already but I find the skinnier I am the more I get used or played. Not sure if it's a direct correlation to being more attractive or feeling better about myself. I'm about average looking and I'm REALLY messed up. I agree with what both walk and johan said. I think that the average person has always had to work on being a better person on the inside. When I first posted I was really thinking about the people who have little sense of right and wrong...perhaps it is because they were always able to get away with more.
slubberdegullion Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Whereas us 'normal' looking people are used to taking a back seat so when we get some attention we just enjoy it and dont expect it! But that doesn't really wash, Lishy. I mean, you're gorgeous, but you certainly don't come across as someone with entitlement issues. wow... am I smooth or what?
Lishy Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 But that doesn't really wash, Lishy. I mean, you're gorgeous, but you certainly don't come across as someone with entitlement issues. wow... am I smooth or what? Oh Slub you are such a charmer! When shall we get married? Hey we could have the first Loveshack Marriage! Walk will you be my Chief Bridesmaid? Maybe Alpha could be your Best Man sweetie? (See I went into wife talk)
FataMorgana Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 So when we look in the mirror and wish we looked like Cindy Crawford we should hold our hands together and thank god we are just ordinary looking cos we are much more fun to be around! :lmao: I'll think of this quote from now on everytime I'll see Cindy Crawford. thanks for the mental image Lishy !
Walk Posted January 7, 2006 Posted January 7, 2006 Oh Slub you are such a charmer! When shall we get married? Hey we could have the first Loveshack Marriage! Walk will you be my Chief Bridesmaid? Maybe Alpha could be your Best Man sweetie? (See I went into wife talk) Hell no.. He's mine be-yutch!! *Walk gives slap down* Take that. *uglies gotta fight to keep our man*
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