lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 My h came home in a good mood all loving and affectionate,so we went out to eat.. We got our food and went to sit down, he realized he needed to get his son something to eat to take home ,he was at his wrestling tournament ,and would need something to eat later .... He went back up to have them add another sandwich ,while i was sitting down eating... I heard the guy, behind the counter say something to my h!! I didn't hear it and h said nothing ,they was laughing, I said oh "yall always picking on me no big deal''...My h went to the bathroom, and the guy behind the counter came over to me and said " I asked your h if i could walk over and tell you that you was a beautiful lady " I wasn't expecting him to say that ,thought it was something else ,like making fun of being spoiled ,like he said while we was in line!! My h came and sat down ,and acted pissed off, he wasn't like that till we came to eat his whole attitude changed once the guy had said what was said!!!!! I don't get it .. Why is he pissed at me for what another man said? He said it was ok for the guy to tell me that...
JadeStar Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Maybe he was ticked at himself for telling that guy it was ok to tell you that. He probably just acted that way to you, but was really mad at himself. Jade
alphamale Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I don't get it .. Why is he pissed at me for what another man said? He said it was ok for the guy to tell me that... H may think you were flirting with that dude (eye contact?)...
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 H may think you were flirting with that dude (eye contact?)... Not so not even my type of guy !!
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 Maybe he was ticked at himself for telling that guy it was ok to tell you that. He probably just acted that way to you, but was really mad at himself. Jade Could be Jade? I don't know,but he was looking at his phone for the time ,and was really agigitated and was ready to go... Didn't even finish my food..
Neptune Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Quote Alpha Male H may think you were flirting with that dude (eye contact?)... Or maybe he started thinking and asked himself....What happens when I`m not around that she isn`t telling me:confused:
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 Quote Alpha Male H may think you were flirting with that dude (eye contact?)... Or maybe he started thinking and asked himself....What happens when I`m not around and she insn`t telling me:confused: LoL!! I don't know if that is what he is thinking or not,but he has nothing to worry aboutwith me... I didn't cheat when we split ,why would i do it when we together ? He cheated not me!!!! Had air and opportunity but never bit .. I was still married and that meant something to me!!!
JadeStar Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 He had a reality check from this other guy that wanted to tell you this. Even though he may feel you're beautiful because you are his wife and even though maybe he knows or feels that others find you that way as well, it didn't really hit home until he actually heard another person tell you. Jade
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 He had a reality check from this other guy that wanted to tell you this. Even though he may feel you're beautiful because you are his wife and even though maybe he knows or feels that others find you that way as well, it didn't really hit home until he actually heard another person tell you. Jade Could be not sure ,but we was at his gig and the guy he works with asked him how he got me!! I don't get what he meant ,my h isn't ugly so ,i don't know .. The guy said this all night and my h will come home and tell me this, and said that he is a lucky man!! I don't know ,h even made the comment ,i will hook u up... Then i say no , and he says "you love me even though im a ass"
SmoochieFace Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 ...and the guy behind the counter came over to me and said " I asked your h if i could walk over and tell you that you was a beautiful lady " I cannot believe people sometimes... Why oh why would a man actually ask a woman's husband if he could tell her how *beautiful* she is? Are people THAT wacked out these days? Some people really are in serious need of treatment. If some guy came up to me and asked me if it was okay to do something like that to my GF I'd call up the closest *sannytarium* and ask them to ready up a room cuz they would be getting a new arrival before the evening is out.
JadeStar Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Sounds like insecurity then on his part. He needs to realize other people may think you're nice looking etc, and if feels the same, then he should be greatful and thankful or even flattered others feel that way. Jade
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 I cannot believe people sometimes... Why oh why would a man actually ask a woman's husband if he could tell her how *beautiful* she is? Are people THAT wacked out these days? Some people really are in serious need of treatment. If some guy came up to me and asked me if it was okay to do something like that to my GF I'd call up the closest *sannytarium* and ask them to ready up a room cuz they would be getting a new arrival before the evening is out. This guy we know for several years coming in the resturant wasn't a stranger not a friend but still i think it was wrong too!!
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 Sounds like insecurity then on his part. He needs to realize other people may think you're nice looking etc, and if feels the same, then he should be greatful and thankful or even flattered others feel that way. Jade I think you are right and he also tells me he has no insecuritys and isn't a jealous person !!
SmoochieFace Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 This guy we know for several years coming in the resturant wasn't a stranger not a friend but still i think it was wrong too!! Stranger or not... doesn't make any difference... it's still a tacky thing to do. The mental picture I have of this guy is that of a real scuzball... someone who probably enjoys being drunk and feeling up women... gross.
JadeStar Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I think you are right and he also tells me he has no insecuritys and isn't a jealous person !! Of course hes not going to tell you he is jealous or is insecure, but actions speak louder than words. So with him acting that way just proves he probably is. Jade
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Posted January 6, 2006 Stranger or not... doesn't make any difference... it's still a tacky thing to do. The mental picture I have of this guy is that of a real scuzball... someone who probably enjoys being drunk and feeling up women... gross. I don't know him that well .. just an acqaintence and i think it is still wrong what he said to my h !! My h is a big guy and this was a little guy.. I wouldn't have even thought to do that..
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