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My husband has said he wants to wait to have sex... until we're 60!

JoanneManchester

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I am 24 and my husband is 29. I promised to him that we would not have sex until we were married, as we are both virgins.

 

Now he's saying that he doesn't want sex with me until we're in our early 60s - and I find it odd. He said to me that he meant this seriously, and wants to lose his virginity to me at 60.

 

What should I do about the situation? I am worried about our relationship.

lilmoma1973 Established Member

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WTF ,what if you die before 60? :confused::confused: I don't understand why someone would make this request and has along time to go ..:confused: Are you for real ? :confused: I do not buy someone making such a request as this....:confused:

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Well if this is real post, then I guess I'll bite. If he doesn't want to have sex until you're both in your 60's, then get out of it now. Theres some major issues going on!! That is absolutly Whacko! :confused:

 

 

 

 

 

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But truth is stranger than fiction. This is likely a case for annulment. If you were led to believe you would wait for marriage to have sex and then he presents this scenario then you have been mislead.

 

Seek immediate counceling if you feel the marriage worth it or seek an attorney to get an annulment. The good news is it should be easy if you have not had sex and both parties will admit that.

SmoochieFace Established Member

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You might want to check to make sure he has his *parts* before making that commitment. You don't want to discover after waiting all that time that he had his balls blown off during the war or something. :p

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I am 24 and my husband is 29. I promised to him that we would not have sex until we were married, as we are both virgins.

 

Now he's saying that he doesn't want sex with me until we're in our early 60s - and I find it odd. He said to me that he meant this seriously, and wants to lose his virginity to me at 60.

 

What should I do about the situation? I am worried about our relationship.

 

Joanne from Irlam, Greater Manchester, UK

 

Please please please don't have SEX until you are turning 60!!!!!!!!! Hopefully he won't be able to get it up any more and you'll become the first adult couple to die as virgins.. That would be SO cool!!! be the first!!!!:D :D :D :D

JayKay Established Member

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Sounds like your boy doesn't like sex much and wants to stall it as long as possible.

 

If you are OK having a celibate marriage (for the most part) and not bearing any of his biological children (unless you want to be artificially inseminated) then go ahead and marry him.

 

If you are not OK with any of the above, DO NOT marry him.

SmoochieFace Established Member

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Didn't we have some of these a few months back? They seemed to be from Manchester as well. They were with some radio station and they were conducting some sort of survey, I believe.

NYCmitch25 Established Member

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I can't believe some of you take this is as real thread.... :laugh:

 

person has posted only once, person has ridiculus claims, person joined VERY recently, person doesn't even act slightly formal... hmmm.. :confused:

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