Geoffrey Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Is anyone among you experiencing dreams in which your ex appears? I know that the persistence of memory is a powerful thing....but some of the dreams I have had lately are curling my hair.... These are full-color dreams, just like watching a short little movie...and usually I am someplace close to where I used to live, something strange happens, my ex appears, and then it ends with a sharp, loud pop. This is an almost nightly showing of a very weird vignette. And then I am left alone to make sense of it....but I never really do... And you?
JS17 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Uch, I used to have those. They were the worst!!! I used to have nightmares about my ex having sex with his girlfriend. That was the worst it ever got, from there it was only up and up. 1
Author Geoffrey Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 The ones where they're naked are pretty bad, you're right about that....I'm gonna go throw up now....
JS17 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 oops, sorry, didn't mean to remind you of that. The dreams suck but that's the worst it gets so it can only get better for you from here.
Author Geoffrey Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 Awwww that's OK! Thankfully it's only a dream....
Jadey Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Dreaming about the ex SUCK Last night i dreamt he was helping me paint my bedroom...like wtf?...It's because him and painting my room were the main two things in my mind before i got to sleep. It was so real though and he looked so good
The Prototype Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Great song from the eighties, but don't go download it, it won't make you feel any better...
Zetter Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 i don't know about you, but one time in college a girlfriend came back to me in the middle of the night to make up after 3 months of being broken up. So when we separated I would go to bed and hope so hard my wife would realize what she did wrong and come home as I fell asleep. One night I litereally was on the edge of the bed as I slept, and apparently in my dream I saw the bedroom door creak open and she walked in with her dog (that she took when she left). I reached over to give them a hug and fell out of bed, as it was only a dream I was acting out. That one f'd me up for a long time.
jacked17 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 I've had a dream about my ex every single day this week. I was like doing ok for awhile but this week she just keeps showing up with her new boyfriend and I actually fought him in one of the dreams. I just hope she stops showing up because it's ruining my sleep.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Don't dream about my ex haven't since high school ..... I am married now i dream about my h !!!
brooke7777 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 Sometimes my dreams seem so incredibly real and I really have to think when I wake up...did that really happen? One time I even checked my call log on my phone because in the dream I had a phone converstaion with the ex that led to our reconciliation and man did that conversation seem real. Dreams can be annoying at times.
dazed343 Posted January 13, 2006 Posted January 13, 2006 I don't think there's a night that goes by where I don't dream of my ex in some way. Sometimes she can be in my dream for merr moments, other times we are back together, and sometimes I can be with her for a while and then she's gone. I don't mind them, however it doesn't help you to move on. Then again, you don't really have any controll over your dreams. Lately, I've been thinking about my ex alot. We've been broken up for 2 months now, almost 3 but there's alot of times I could be doing anything and a memory or some time we had will pop into my head. I've accepted things, I just miss her still, and think about her alot.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 19, 2006 Posted January 19, 2006 at the begining of my break up, i would have disturbing dreams of him....than him and his new gf...and i reamber always smashing in her face hahah it was so funny...dreams are so powerful....gosh
skeptik224 Posted January 20, 2006 Posted January 20, 2006 Most of the time, dreams about your ex means that you have not gotten emotional closure. That doesn't mean that that's the case every time. Check out http://www.dreamdoctor.com...
Author Geoffrey Posted January 20, 2006 Author Posted January 20, 2006 Last nite, I actually had a dream in which I met someone new (never seen her before in real life!) and was kissing her..... Now THAT'S more like it!!
Author Geoffrey Posted January 20, 2006 Author Posted January 20, 2006 Though the days are long Twilight sings a song Of the happiness that used to be Soon my eyes will close And i'll find repose And in dreams you're always near to me I'll see you in my dreams And I'll hold you in my dreams Someone took you right out of my arms Still I feel the thrill of your charms Lips that once were mine Tender eyes that shine They will light my lonely way tonight I'll see you in my dreams Oh, someone took you right out of my arms Still I feel the thrill of your charms Lips that once were mine Tender eyes that shine They will light my lonely way tonight I'll see you in my dreams **cry**
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