lonesome_loser2 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 hey, thanks for reading this. I am not sure where to start. Well first off, I knew this girl's mom before I knew her. I met her mom about a year ago through mutual friends. Almost instantly her mom and I became freiends, and soon after her mom began talking about her daughter (trying to hook me up). I am not into being set up like that, so i pretty much blew it off and never persued it. Then, about 2 weeks ago, I go to a local bar, by myself. I barely got my first beer ordered before "mom" came up to say hello. Her mom asked me to come sit with her and her daughter... I said I might and stayed at the bar. About 5 minutes the daughter comes up and was like "i would really like it if you would come sit with us". She was gorgeous, so I accepted. About 30 minutes later, this girl was sitting on my lap. Keep in mind she does not drink. Needless to say, this girl was all over me. Went home that night, the next night I go to her parent's house, as soon as her parents are in bed she attacks me. She strips down to her bra and panties, and we have a nice make out session. At any rate, i wasn't sure about this girl and I didn't want to have sex with her that night. So basically this type of thing continues for another week. She text messages me everyday telling me how happy she is about me. Everytime we hang out, it has to be what she wants to do.... which I started to notice and this began to work on me. So we made plans for new year's.... (what she wanted to do) to go to this hole in the wall bar with her adoptive parents. So I did.... all night long she was all over me. I mean it was craziness how she wouldn't leave me alone. So she made the comment that she might go back to her parent's house afterwards... i told her I was going to my place (rent a 3 bedroom house) and that I wanted her to come but i get the impression that she didn't want to. So then she cops an attitude and replies "you'll be lucky if i ever come back there or something like that".... So that pissed me off. In the meantime, her friend wants o go to this guy's house to "drop something off" afterwards... which so happens they had to drive right past my house to go there. So I left, went home and went to bed... kissed her goodnight. The next day she text messages me a bunch, and I wanted to take and spend some time away from her, but I finally break down and call her back that evening. Everything seems cool.... The next day she calls me and is like " i want to talk to you about something".... It turns out that she had been probing this guy who barely knows me for dirt. So this guy tells her that he doesn't know me that well and that the only time he and I ever hung out was to go to the strip club twice which is true.... and i tild her the same. But somehow she gets that I am a "player" and confronts me about that. That pisse dme off because I don't fit the bill at all. She also told this guy that she was "going to give it up to me" on new year's eve. But I guess i ruined that because I did something I wanted to do afterwards. I don't have time to be a player.... but that was dropped and she seemed cool about it after that. She comes up with weird questions... like if I had a fetish for women's lingerie... and I am like doesen't every guy? So I am like why do you ask... and she says her ex used to wear her panties... wow. She invites me over.... I am not there 5 minutes before she strips down to her bra and panties and is all over me again. I did not have sex with her, it ended up being 2 a.m. so I kissed her goodbye and went home. Before I did we made plans to have an actual date the next night... since we had not really had an actual date. She agreed..... So the next day comes ( i barely hear anything from her all day which was rare). 8:30 comes, which is the time that she was supposed to call me ... no call. So I wait until about 9 and call her.... she doesen't answer, so i habg up then she calls back right away. She said she was getting ready....and we started to discuss what we were going to do.... some how the call got disconnected in the middle of that. Try to call her back... her phone does not even ring. (keep in mind the whole time I have known this girl she is always on top of her cell phone). So she turned her phone off... did not hear from her the rest of the evening. I call her the next day and tell her how ****ty it was that she did that. She sends me a text message saying that she was sorry but did not have time to explain (she was at work). She message me later, saying that I am amazing.... Naturally, i wanted to get to the bottom of it. So last night after I still had no call from her to offer an explanation.... I went to her place and confronted her. She claimed she had a nervous breakdown the night before. I was like "why couldn't you call and tell me this?" She had no answer, and I knew right there she was lying. So I told her I wanted to talk about it, to see what her reaction was. She said that she would call me tomorrow... and I refused that. I wanted to know right then..... So then i basically told her that I thought she was a liar and had little respect for other people.... she actually admitted to it! She continued on to say that she was selfish... she admitted this!! I kind of had the wow factor going then... So i was like "why am i even here then?"... " i don't have a reason to even stick around"..... she replies saying that she still wants to date me etc....I was like " words are cheap".... I don't know but something went through me then. I am usually a really nice guy but I wnrt off on her. I told her that she was selfish, immature and then I flat out called her a bitch. I have only used the b word one before... but i really meant it. Man I really let her have have, I bitched her out for a good five minutes and left. Told her to NEVER call me again. That bring me to today... I have a strange feeling it's a matter of time until she calls me. I honestly see no future with her anymore. I just think the whole situation shows some really strange behavioir on her part and want to see what people here at the love shack think. In a way I feel bad for btiching her out but in another way I feel so much better and that she deserved it. WTF is wrong with this girl? I have met other girls recently that act similar to her but this takes the cake. Initially, i did really like this girl...but now I have no respect for her. Can anyone shed some light on this girl's wacky behavior?
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Wow...she is whacked. I mean, you're right, alot of girls are similar but ..wow! I could even see myself in a couple of your examples, very mild versions though. You sound almost too normal and not what she needs, and she is far from what you need. Let's hope she doesn't call.
JS17 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 That is really strange, it's kind of the way guys act, the whole disappearing no explanation thing. I would go with your gut and steer clear of this girl.
lonsome_loser2 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Thanks for the responses... Yeah, I have pretty much already decided to steer clear of her. Just wanted a possible explanation for the strange behavior.
lonsome_loser2 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I agree, she is immature. I guess i just needed some back up... wanted to hear it from someone else.
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