SproadicQuestionaire Posted October 7, 2024 Posted October 7, 2024 I know rejection is part of dating and whatnot but lately I have had the worst luck. Maybe I rely on social media too much and signs such as that but lately it’s been bad. in the last month, my buddies and I have gone out several times. I have gotten 8 numbers, done the whole Instagram follow and follow back whatever. 7/8 ghosted after the first night of meeting and 4 unfollowed and didn’t remove me as a follower. I get rejection but any advice on how to actually move past the initial meeting night/day?
Calmandfocused Posted October 7, 2024 Posted October 7, 2024 Here’s my advice… If a woman gives you her phone number use it. Contact her and politely ask her out like a gentleman. Drop the IG tactic. It doesn’t work and I can see why a lot of women would be put off by it. A potential date wants you to express an interest in her. Not follow you online. Change your strategy
Author SproadicQuestionaire Posted October 7, 2024 Author Posted October 7, 2024 20 minutes ago, Calmandfocused said: Here’s my advice… If a woman gives you her phone number use it. Contact her and politely ask her out like a gentleman. Drop the IG tactic. It doesn’t work and I can see why a lot of women would be put off by it. A potential date wants you to express an interest in her. Not follow you online. Change your strategy Thanks for that. I’ll try that change up and see how it works. Text same day/night or wait? I hate playing games and s***
Gaeta Posted October 7, 2024 Posted October 7, 2024 The IG tactic is not serious. I have a friend who used to go around collecting IGs and giving out his, he was not interested in dating, only in hooking up. Exchange numbers and text her the following day, end of day, to say it was great meeting her. 1 1
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