Shayle Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 I have been with my bf going on 5 years. We had our rough patches. He constantly lied and cheated on me a few times. He says he loves me and needs help because he doesn’t want to loose me. I know some of you might judge me for my action but I reached out to a spell caster a member had recommended previously. After consultation I decided to do the love spell and everything has been going well ever since . Last night, he propose to me and I said yes He’s like a completely changed man and adores me in a good way. His mom doesn’t seem to like me. I have tried bonding with her but it doesn’t seem like she cares . Should I reach out to the spell caster for some help or just roll with it? I have been lost in thought all evening. My now fiancé is super sweet and doesn’t like me out of his sight. I love this man and he never went back to cheating . He would rather spend all his free time with me. Before you judge me for my action, Some of us need the extra help to be happy. I don’t regret seeking a spiritual help. Any thoughts and suggestions would be appreciated.
Foxhall Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 I suppose a spell is as good of remedy as any, I dont think he will remain under it for very long but ultimately if you love him you may just have to accept he will play around a little from time to time. be a very understanding wife.
Just Jason Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 (edited) Just out of curiosity, what made you stay after he cheated? Edited October 6, 2024 by Just Jason 2
Gaeta Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 (edited) After a boyfriend is caught cheating and he convinced you of staying in the relationship he will go through a phase called the honeymoon phase. That's what you're experiencing right now. It has nothing to do with a spell. Your boyfriend will cheat again, he'll just be better at hiding it. Edited October 6, 2024 by Gaeta 1
Leihla_B Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 Whenever someone abuses or cheats, there is a cycle if you forgive them and stick around. They'll be nice for a little while. Then it's back to being sneaky, only they'll get better at hiding it. 1
Gebidozo Posted October 6, 2024 Posted October 6, 2024 I hate to disappoint you, but what’s happening is not the result of the spell. Your boyfriend is overjoyed that you forgave his horrible behavior so easily and without any repercussions. He is going to be really nice to you now. Then he will probably cheat again. Saying “yes” to his marriage proposal was a terrible mistake that will cause you a lot of pain and deep regret in the future. At the very least, please take that “yes” back. You and your BF are very, very far from being ready to get married. 1
riversidemf Posted October 10, 2024 Posted October 10, 2024 I hope he gave you a big rock! Congratulations.
riversidemf Posted October 10, 2024 Posted October 10, 2024 On 10/6/2024 at 1:14 PM, Gebidozo said: I hate to disappoint you, but what’s happening is not the result of the spell. Your boyfriend is overjoyed that you forgave his horrible behavior so easily and without any repercussions. He is going to be really nice to you now. Then he will probably cheat again. Saying “yes” to his marriage proposal was a terrible mistake that will cause you a lot of pain and deep regret in the future. At the very least, please take that “yes” back. You and your BF are very, very far from being ready to get married. People can change.
Gaeta Posted October 10, 2024 Posted October 10, 2024 13 minutes ago, riversidemf said: People can change. In short 'no'. People change when they go in therapy and commit to changing. People don't change in 1 week. 1
Gebidozo Posted October 11, 2024 Posted October 11, 2024 5 hours ago, riversidemf said: People can change. Not as fast as that. Change takes a lot of time and effort. You can’t magically turn a cheater into a good guy like this. I used to be a cheater just like that guy, and it took me years to truly change. Years after I had realized that cheating was wrong and decided to become a better person. Cheaters need to address and deal with their own issues, solve their deep mental, spiritual, sexual problems that are causing them to cheat. This can’t happen overnight. Marrying this guy now would be a huge mistake for the OP. 1
Author Shayle Posted October 14, 2024 Author Posted October 14, 2024 Thank you.. I have reconsidered my decision. I will give it more time and see how it plays out
NuevoYorko Posted October 14, 2024 Posted October 14, 2024 Maybe you should see if there's a spell to help you get over wanting to be with a man who treats you poorly.
basil67 Posted October 14, 2024 Posted October 14, 2024 On 10/6/2024 at 8:11 PM, Shayle said: Should I reach out to the spell caster for some help or just roll with it? I can do better than the spellcaster. Send me $200 and I will ensure that any man you choose will fall in love with you and treat you as a princess
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