shyguy1126 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 my girlfriend has been talking to some new guy they hangout all the time lately but she says she just wants a friend but she knows he likes her and when talks about him she "that kid matt" or "the kid matt" and i she says she dont know if anything is gonna happen between them and i just dont what to do anymore its killing me on the inside is there any signs i cud look for to c if she is falling for him or nething:(
JadeStar Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 "Are their signs I can look for?" Well seems to mean you don't have to look to far. 1.Shes talking to another guy, they hang out all the time. 2.She says she just likes him as a friend, but she already knows he likes her (my guess for more than a friend) 3.She says she doesn't know if anything is gonna happen between them or not. Number 3 is not good at all. Hey maybe you can appreciate her honesty right? However, shes telling you that shes not sure if anything will happen, which would say, theres that chance. She hangs out with him alot, can't you see something is developing here? Its fine to have friends of the opposite sex, but when it gets to the point to where they are hanging out with them all the time, thats not a good sign. Have you expressed to her how this makes you feel? If so what is her answer Let me guess, "Hes just a friend?" If he is just a friend maybe she should invite you to come along while they "hang out." Jade
exotic_virgin Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I say she loves the attention... Or being a women she could also be trying to get ur attention... But maybe u should show her that u r bothred and see how things go...
lilmoma1973 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I would have to say that it is where she is getting an emotional thing from this OM !! Maybe you could ask her why she continues to want to hang out with him,if it is only friends!! This guy is wanting alot more or he wouldn't be hanging around!!
Author shyguy1126 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 me n her hav been goin out for a long time almost 3 years and she was claiming i dont give her enough attention n she likes the attention so i hoping thats all it is. do u think its a good thing she always says the kid matt not just matt
JadeStar Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Reguardless of what she calls this other guy is beside the point. The real issue here is that she likes the attention he is providing fo her. She has already told you that you don't pay her enough attention. The ball is now in your court on wheather you want to step up to the plate and provide that attention for her to win her back so to speak. This other guy will need to be out of the picture if you and your g/f want to work on things. Jade
lilmoma1973 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 me n her hav been goin out for a long time almost 3 years and she was claiming i dont give her enough attention n she likes the attention so i hoping thats all it is. do u think its a good thing she always says the kid matt not just matt She is getting something from this "kid matt" or she wouldn't continue seeing him as a friend !! Have you told her that you don't like her hanging out with him? If you have and she continues ,even after you tell her how it makes you feel ,then she not considerate of your feelings!! She is bound to have a emotional connection with him ,since you said she told you that about the attention ,matt is giving her!! Start giving her the emotional connection she is wanting ,or i see trouble ,and she will have a physical thing with him, as well as emotional ,and you will lose her!! I think she is telling you what she is wanting this as a warning take heed!! Good luck
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