habeebah Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 i've been on and off with this guy for a couple months now. i've held back on things sexually because i don't feel as if he has earned anything. he's frustrated sexually and i'm frustrated emotionally (that's why we're on and off). we keep getting in fights about "us" and who's in the wrong. in the end, i want to have fun with him but i want to be treated right. my question is, does it get better than this situation? or is sex the most important thing to a guy in a relationship? important enough to dump someone because she doesn't hold it to the same importance?
Lucasarts Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 some guys get with girls just to bang her you know the "wam,bam,thank you ma'am" line? that seems to apply here hes all about wanting to get your "snatch" i should know cause i have been guilty of doing the same... he will break up with you if you dont give it up, but b/c i am tryin to encourage you here, then i will have to say that you should hold back and see if he still is gonna stick around. wait for the right moment, especially if this is your first time. oh and if you do give it up, i have to say there is a 75% chance that he'll dump you for someone else shortly after. or he'll keep wanting it if you're good at it.
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