SweetnSassy Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I' ve been with this guy that I met online for a month now. He suppose to come and visit me soon. I asked him when he comes to visit would it alright if we hang out at my house ( I live with my parents) instead of the hotel room. He got all mad and hung up on me I called him back and his cell phone was turned off. We haven't talked since that happened..He says he loves me and want to be with me forever but I'm not really sure thats true. Does he want to be with me forever or does he just want sex?
bluechocolate Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 There are several things wrong here. I' ve been with this guy that I met on-line for a month now. You haven't been with him. You haven't met. You cannot have a relationship with someone who only exists in cyber-space. I asked him when he comes to visit would it alright if we hang out at my house ( I live with my parents) instead of the hotel room. You never, ever meet a stranger in a secluded place. He says he loves me and want to be with me forever but I'm not really sure thats true. He's lying. Nobody in their right mind can say & believe something like that after a month of being in close physical contact, never mind being on-line. Does he want to be with me forever or does he just want sex? He just wants sex. He got all mad and hung up on me I called him back and his cell phone was turned off. Never call him again. Never email him again. Block him from any & all devices so he can never contact you again. 1
justagirliegirl Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Have you ever met him before in real life? I think I would just forget about him. You are looking for a man not a toddler who throws temper tantrums.
Mary3 Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 He is a : L O S E R !! Please do not talk to this man again. He could be a rapist who wants to get you alone in a hotel room. NEVER agree to meet someone at your home. Meet in a public place. He does NOT love you. Love takes a long time to develop and only after real time spent together. You are a fantasy. A sex fantasy. Anyone met on-line needs numerous dates and time spent to decide about love and life and such things... DROP him ASAP !
Author SweetnSassy Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 He says he know whats really going on and that is I want to get back with my ex and I'm trying to hide him from my ex. How can I hide him at my house when my ex knows where I live?
bluechocolate Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Ah, so you're still in touch with the guy? Bad move. Who cares what he says? His intentions are clear & they aren't good.
morrigan Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 This guy's actions are a multitude of red flags. Read what everyone has posted again. His actions are the true indicator, not any romantic BS he may spout. You don't know him, you know the internet persona he created. He is now starting to show part of his true nature to you--demands, intimidation, accusations. He's a manipulator and he's possessive about someone he's only known online. Totally block him online and cut off all contact.
habeebah_leena Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 wipe your hands clean of him. there's someone else out there that can offer much more and treat you much better. i agree with the red flags comment. wayyy toooo many red flags there.
itwontdawnsooner Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 everyone here seems right, this guy is manipulative. dont just glaze over that word. MANIPULATIVE. and could be worse. you know it deep down, its nice to have a potential love interest, but you deserve better than this. be careful, and stop contact. be safe!
Author SweetnSassy Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 No I haven't talk to him since it happened. He said that right before he hung up on me.
bluechocolate Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 No I haven't talk to him since it happened. He said that right before he hung up on me. Good. Don't talk to him again, ever. Please trust us - this guy has bad news written all over him. Here are some pointers that I found about meeting people online: Make friends first, don't look for love right away.Be careful, there are a lot of people out there that enjoy hurting people. Post and browse bulletin and message boards that interest you. This way, you'll find people that enjoy some of the same things that you do. When you do meet someone on the computer, don't believe everything that they tell you. After a while, you can tell if someone is being honest with you. Never give out any kind of personal information about yourself, ie: phone number, address, to anyone until you're sure that you can trust them. If possible, use an email address that can't be traced back to you. If you find someone online, take your time getting to know them. Don't rush things. You might think that you are falling in love online, but you may just be falling for a false persona. You won't know if it's love, till you meet face-to-face.
Author SweetnSassy Posted January 5, 2006 Author Posted January 5, 2006 Thanks for the pointer bluechocolate
Lucasarts Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 AHAHAHHAHAHHA no hes not sketchy for wanting to meet u alone in a hotel room naked on the bed, and he plans on not having a condom and probably has a sexual disease seriously, just lose this f*cking wierdo 1
bluechocolate Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Thanks for the pointer bluechocolate You're welcome.
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