sunnie23 Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 ok guys, i've got a good one here: i met the guy i am dating a month ago. things have been awesome, except for the horrible anxiety i have all the time......... we hang out every couple of days, he's met my friends and i've met all of his. it was weird in the beginning because it took him a couple of weeks to warm up, but now he's really affectionate. when we are together we are rarely not touching. his friends all refer to me as his girlfriend, although he's never said it himself. we've also both met each other's parents. the weird thing is, we have only had sex a couple of times, and both of us were drunk when it happened. i didn't think too much about it because we both still live with our parents and have absolutely no privacy. it's been a couple of years since i dated anyone, but my living arrangements never seemed to get in the way before. now i'm totally freaked out, because in that book, he's just not that into you, not having sex means he's just not that into me. so i dont know what to do. i feel like a psycho confronting him after only a month, especially since we spend so much time together and he's so affectionate. any insight would be greatly appreciated....
SuperMonk Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Living with parents is a major block for a guy to initiate sex, and vice versa. You should talk to him about this whether this is the case, if he brings up "Okay, we should do it in the car or when we go on long trips we can rent a motel" then you're in. If he doesn't come up with any solutions EVEN the LEAST such as "Okay, we should do it when parents aren't home" - then something is wrong with this dude. He could be gay, even gay flamers will show lots of affection to their girl "friends" - As a dude, I only show affection by pulling down her pants and slamming it in her. That is the reason why men date women, They want sex! And that's why you want relationships too, Sex! Normal people get into relationships for SEX! Talk to him about it, see what he says, and then think about whatever decision you want to make.
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