Enygmatic Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Well I need some advice around here...especially from girls but if you guys can contribute all your comments are welcome. The thing is that now im going out with this girl I met a couple of days ago and everything seems to go in the right track. Beforehand she told me that she is kind of jealous but so far she hasnt shown anything. Now heres the problem... I have a good relationship with the mother and the little sister of my ex (we broke up about a month ago). The sister called to invite mo to a play that shes is going to be performing at.....and i already accepted. I dont know if I should tell my girlfriend about the play and ask her to go with me or simply not go to the play. Do you think this can harm our relationship? what should I do?
Merin Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 You should go. Fine if you want to ask your Girl to come along (in fact I think you should) The thing is... IMO a little jealousy is normal with most, but IF or WHEN you start giving up your friends (that are just friends) simply because the person you're with is that insecure then that is a huge problem.
bluechocolate Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 I dont know if I should tell my girlfriend about the play.... Of course you should tell her about the play. Do you think this can harm our relationship? What relationship? You've only been going out for a few days. ....or simply not go to the play. You've already accepted - you should go. what should I do? Tell her about the play & tell her you would like her to go with you.
mattea Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 I dont know if I should tell my girlfriend about the play and ask her to go with me or simply not go to the play. Do you think this can harm our relationship? what should I do? I think you should definitely tell her and ask her to go. I think NOT telling her could harm the relationship, because you'd be starting off by hiding things. If/when she finds out about things that you could have told her and didn't, the the trust level will go down. If you're inviting her to the play, she'll know you aren't hiding from your ex's family that you're with someone new, so she won't have so much to worry about.
Citizen Erased Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 Go to the play and insist that your new girl goes with you. If she feels you're including her in you life, especially by introducing her to your ex, then she will feel less insecure if she can put a face to the name
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