Insecurities of long distance

[Fatima201]

I have been in a relationship for the past 9 years on and off. We have had fights without any valid reason and I think the reason might be long distance 

[Gebidozo]

Long distance for 9 (!) years? That’s too long for most relationships to survive. 

How long is the distance? How often do you see each other?

[Gaeta]

Fatima201 is between the age of 18-24.

A relationship of 9 years sounds weird here.

We need more details.

[BaileyB]

We clearly need more information. People also don’t fight for no reason. 

[justwhoiam]

Have you ever met him in person? Are you from the same culture?