Update on my first date with Kim

[Keeves1]

52 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

Saying they don't feel the chemistry is just a generic line people give which could mean all kinds of different things. I have had an hour long make out session with someone where we were both feeling each other up and then just before the second date was set to happen she came back with that line. I think for many that is just a line they give to almost everyone that they simply don't want to continue on with for whatever reason.

Word!

[Gaeta]

1 hour ago, Keeves1 said:

She said that she does not feel chemistry. To schedule a second date after 2 weeks is normal yes, but I don't like the idea of it because then you would lose momentum but what can I say?  People are busy and need to find a time that fits 

Why was there a delay of 2 weeks between date 1 and 2 ?

She did not feel it and that's ok, that's dating. The good thing is she did not let you think everything was alright for 2 weeks.

 

 

 

[Keeves1]

5 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

Why was there a delay of 2 weeks between date 1 and 2 ?

She did not feel it and that's ok, that's dating. The good thing is she did not let you think everything was alright for 2 weeks.

There was a delay because of work, a family visit and a get away to Sweden with her friends. I agree! Atleast she was honest and upfront about it so that she doesn't waste my time 

[Sony12]

3 minutes ago, Keeves1 said:

There was a delay because of work, a family visit and a get away to Sweden with her friends. I agree! Atleast she was honest and upfront about it so that she doesn't waste my time 

A getaway to Sweden with her friends? How old was she? Is she college age?

[Keeves1]

43 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

A getaway to Sweden with her friends? How old was she? Is she college age?

She is 28 and is working full time as a pharmacist 

[Sony12]

13 minutes ago, Keeves1 said:

She is 28 and is working full time as a pharmacist 

Ok. Guess I am just looking at it from the viewpoint of living in a country the size of the U.S. where it can take days to get to an extravagant destination and if they do go it's usually planned out pretty far in advance for those with full time jobs.

Edited September 23, 2024 by Sony12

[Keeves1]

24 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

Ok. Guess I am just looking at it from the viewpoint of living in a country the size of the U.S. where it can take days to get to an extravagant destination and if they do go it's usually planned out pretty far in advance for those with full time jobs.

Yeaa. It takes about 1,3 hours with car to Sweden from Norway. It seems like it that she had planned the trip in advance. Thanks anyways for good help!!

[Sony12]

11 minutes ago, Keeves1 said:

Yeaa. It takes about 1,3 hours with car to Sweden from Norway. It seems like it that she had planned the trip in advance. Thanks anyways for good help!!

Ok. For us that would be just like going to another town in our own state. If I wanted to go to Florida from where I live that would be like a two day trip to get there.

Edited September 23, 2024 by Sony12

[fred123]

On 9/23/2024 at 2:17 PM, Keeves1 said:

Update: 

She just cancelled the second date... oh well many fish in the sea so on to the next one! (If I'll get any matches) 

I had a feeling tbh. Like why did u guys plan a date 2 weeks in advance. Bet you it was her idea. You could tell she wasn't into you. Did she reschedule or explain?

[Gaeta]

7 hours ago, fred123 said:

 Like why did u guys plan a date 2 weeks in advance. 

Because l told him so. When we enjoyed the first date and we want a second one then we book it right away to show our interest.