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We broke up about 2 months ago, it was a 9 month relationship. We've kept in contact, shes been flirty at times, we've gone out to lunch, etc.

 

We've both been dating (haven't heard about the guy she supposedly was dating in a while, and she knows i've been dating). And when we were dating, she never really got me anything at all (gifts, etc) and i am a giving person and didn't pay much attention to it. And then she went home for christmas and brings me back some stuff (basically the first time she got me something since I've known her). Trying to read her, and its not the easiest. I'm not really waiting on her, as i'm dating people, but i still would like to see if it could be worked out.

 

Just kind of a "venting" and any insight. Thanks.

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We broke up about 2 months ago, it was a 9 month relationship. We've kept in contact, shes been flirty at times, we've gone out to lunch, etc.

 

We've both been dating (haven't heard about the guy she supposedly was dating in a while, and she knows i've been dating). And when we were dating, she never really got me anything at all (gifts, etc) and i am a giving person and didn't pay much attention to it. And then she went home for christmas and brings me back some stuff (basically the first time she got me something since I've known her). Trying to read her, and its not the easiest. I'm not really waiting on her, as i'm dating people, but i still would like to see if it could be worked out.

 

Just kind of a "venting" and any insight. Thanks.

 

Hi coloradobound,

 

I think you just need to take things one day at a time. Rather than focusing on the minute details & perhaps overanalyzing each & every thing just enjoy the moments as they come. Let things progress naturally. Above all, don't pressure her to define an 'us'.

 

I believe in things happening for a reason. If you two are meant to be, it will happen.

 

K.

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