Geoffrey Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 For me, it's definitely mornings....usually between 8 and 10 am....not sure why....but that is when I miss my ex the most. It must be my little grief rhythm cycling.... Second in line is right before I fall asleep at nite (alone).
Neptune Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Okay, I can`t resist and must beat Alpha and company to the punch line: Always upon first waking up, it doesn`t get any harder than that.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 yeah i'd say waking up- thats when you feel like pure crap- because it hits you all over again- and your dreams to- its freaking terrible man
sick of it Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 in the mroning by far. since the break up i dont sleep much so i will wake up between 3 and 6am everyday. being all by yourself you do nothing but think.
Author Geoffrey Posted January 3, 2006 Author Posted January 3, 2006 yeah i'd say waking up- thats when you feel like pure crap- because it hits you all over again- and your dreams to- its freaking terrible man ohhhhhhh don't get me started about dreams..... !!!
slubberdegullion Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 When I was in the jaws of a black depression, the worst time of day started within a few moments of awakening. Aroused from the bliss of sleep, my eyes would flutter open, I'd be fine for a few seconds, then *WHAM* it would hit me; all my failures, all my disappointments, yadda yadda yadda. Sometimes it lasted an hour, sometimes the whole day. Thankfully, after much hand-wringing, I finally got some help and now I actually get out of bed with a spring in my step. (Then I go pee, and I'm back to a normal gait.)
seachange Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 now I actually get out of bed with a spring in my step. (Then I go pee, and I'm back to a normal gait.) anyhoo. you know, mornings used to be the worst for me, too. but...not anymore. now, they feel full of promise. yay sunshine! okay, i sound like a twink. but it's kind of true, all the same.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 seachange- how long did it take for you to be able to wake up, and feel allright?
seachange Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 It's been in fits and starts. The last couple of weeks in particular have been better for me. I think it started when I went home for Xmas. It's sunny and bright there, and that did make a huge difference. I brought some of that feeling back with me, thank goodness. (made me a bit homesick though) But anyway. I found myself walking outside and feeling just happy to be me. Which was a nice feeling for a change.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 how long has it been since your break up? sorry for the questions
Just Visiting Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 The toughest time for me is when I get off work. Because I would be happy and/or anxious to be able to see and spend time with my ex at that time. Once in awhile the evenings get sad too. But that is gone now and have to re-establish a life for myself.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 3pm weekdays because that is when I get horny and can't do a darned thing about it...well, except for an extended pee break but the washroom is next to my boss' office...
brooke7777 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 My hardest time is also in the morning...when I wake up and realize...yes this has all really happened and it's not one big nightmare.
Zetter Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Weekend mornings. Weekdays are filled with work. Weekends are more free, and that's when the demons come. Waking up without a damn thing to do sucks, especially now that I'm in a city where I don't know a soul.
seachange Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 how long has it been since your break up? sorry for the questions it's been a little over 5 months now.
Lonestar Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Interesting. My worst time of day was at night. Between the hours of 9:00 pm and midnight, later if the sad feelings kept me awake. I'm too busy rushing out of the house in the morning, and on weekends I would sleep late. I guess I don't fit the profile here, but I know my ex's worse time was the mornings and still is. Whenever there is contact from him, it's usually in the morning even when he's working.
Author Geoffrey Posted January 4, 2006 Author Posted January 4, 2006 and right now....8:14 am....it feels like it's raining all over the world...
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