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Some links for men who have been betrayed.


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This is some of the worst stuff I've ever seen.

 

I give my husband cards all the time about how much I love him and do things for him all the time and I'm not cheating.

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Exactly, you do it all the time. If you never did it, and then just started doing it out of the blue. It "might" be cause for concern.

 

At any rate, that's an article by Heidi. Doc Love is the guy who cracks me up. He's a straight shooter. Like I said, a little over the top, but his advice seems to work wonders!

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I don't agree with most of what I read. Especailly the part about her not being needy anymore, means shes found someone else to fill your shoes etc. I have never been one to be needy. So does that mean someone else is out here filling a needy void for me? Nope. Shows a sign of independence if anything not that theres someone on the side.

 

 

 

Jade

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You guys are missing the point on that particular article. The sign of cheating is the CHANGE from one to the other. If you've never been needy, that's not a sign. If you're usually needy, and suddenly aren't anymore, that "might" be a sign. A radical change of behavior is almost always a red flag that something is amiss, whether it's cheating or not.

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Kenyth I understand what you're saying. I know that sometimes when someone changes in their behavior then there might be cause for alarm. However I'm simpling saying that is not always the case. The way that man came across in those links was, he seemed to feel that was the case more so than not. It was like he was a little to sure thats the way things were. But I get what you're saying, and those links were interesting. :)

 

 

 

 

Jade

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That is such BS !! Just because women decide to get a hobby they are cheating!! That man is a trip that put that BS in there!! Women get independent and they are cheating whatever!! What are we suppose to be mousy ?

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That is such BS !! Just because women decide to get a hobby they are cheating!! That man is a trip that put that BS in there!! Women get independent and they are cheating whatever!! What are we suppose to be mousy ?

 

 

That particular article was written by a woman. Heidi is the name on it. :p

 

I found it an interesting article, but it wasn't one of the ones I meant to put there. My little blooper is causing quite a stir it seems. How about the Doc Love articles? Commentary anyone?

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