seachange Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 So how is your friend being she is latina ? Are you saying what Alpha said isn't true? Well, having grown up there, I have a number of latina friends. Some are more feisty than others, of course. But I don't think a single one of them would enjoy the thought that being feminine means letting the man always have the upper hand. Perhaps it's even true in more cases than not (I'm not a fly on the wall in their relationships; so who knows?) but I doubt they'd see it that way. Anyway, I think the "appeal" of latinas as a fantasy has more to do with the stereotype of them as "spitfires" and "passionate" than of them as docile and submissive. It's all a bunch of stereotypes anyway. They're just people. But I will say that sexuality, at least in appearance, tends to be more emphasized/accepted earlier on. Although I wonder if that's so true now as it was when I was in junior high (back in the '80s). MTV has had an effect, it's true.
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 3, 2006 Author Posted January 3, 2006 Well, having grown up there, I have a number of latina friends. Some are more feisty than others, of course. But I don't think a single one of them would enjoy the thought that being feminine means letting the man always have the upper hand. Perhaps it's even true in more cases than not (I'm not a fly on the wall in their relationships; so who knows?) but I doubt they'd see it that way. Anyway, I think the "appeal" of latinas as a fantasy has more to do with the stereotype of them as "spitfires" and "passionate" than of them as docile and submissive. It's all a bunch of stereotypes anyway. They're just people. But I will say that sexuality, at least in appearance, tends to be more emphasized/accepted earlier on. Yeah that is my thought too!! That's why i wanted to know what do latinas have that my friend don't!! Just didn't get it wanted peoples opinions !!There are both women!!
JadeStar Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 I'll tell you a little story about a friend of mine. Her brother in law dated a latina woman before and he said his experince was great! He said she was femine as far as how she looked, but when it came down to it, she was a firecracker! She had a temper, and would assume knock you out than look at you.(Which not sure why that would be appealing) He said the sex was the best he had ever had. She held nothing back at all, and was willing to do anything and everything. He said she seemed to be really into pleasing her man. It was all about him, and that she liked it like that. She liked to please him and would go to great lengths to do so. One night they got into an arguement about something petty, she went off on him. Said she broke a picture frame and a vase of his in his apartment. It ended in a really hot night of sex! He said he could say she was violent, but he prefers to say she had alot of passion! Jade
phyrespryte Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 He said he could say she was violent, but he prefers to say she had alot of passion!Jade So that's what they mean by passion!
JadeStar Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 So that's what they mean by passion! LOL yeah guess thats one way of looking at it.
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 3, 2006 Author Posted January 3, 2006 So that's what they mean by passion! Passion like that i can do without!! That is abuse!!
seachange Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Yes, from my own experience (I'm thinking of both friends and my former in-laws) there does seem to be a lot less burying of emotion, on the whole - just get it all out there on the table! :laugh: I like that. Edited to add: I agree, lilmoma, that breaking things is going too far.
SmoochieFace Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Don't forget Lorena Bobbitt... another latina who *took things too far*.
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 3, 2006 Author Posted January 3, 2006 Don't forget Lorena Bobbitt... another latina who *took things too far*. Yeah but i blame Joey he played her bad!!
alphamale Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 He said he could say she was violent, but he prefers to say she had alot of passion! yeah, by that definition I'd say that Charles Manson had a lotta passion also
whichwayisup Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 If I was a lesbian, I'd go for a Latina girl. Definately. Sexy, that olive smooth skin...LOL!
Author lilmoma1973 Posted January 3, 2006 Author Posted January 3, 2006 yeah, by that definition I'd say that Charles Manson had a lotta passion also roflmao!!
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