ELS_sn777 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Hi everyone, I am a pretty busy college student. This past semester there was this girl in one of my classes that I had a crush on, but I kept avoiding this feeling to keep on top of my schedule. This semester, I would like to make some time for a relationship, but the only contact info I have for that girl is her email. I don't know how else to get ahold of her except by asking a bunch of people that may know her. Also, we only exchanged a few words during class and I ran into her a few times at the gym. But we didn't do anything but smile at each other a few times. I know all that sounds pretty lame, but now I actually want to talk to her. The only problem is that, if I just randomly start talking to her I feel it would seem kind of strange--and the artificiality would be detectable. Would it be awkward if I emailed her, told her who I was, and where she could find a picture of me in the directory to recognize me, and immediately asked her out on a date in that email? I know it sounds lame, but I literally don't have any other means of contacting her. I would appreciate any suggestions for subtler approaches (that aren't also obviously artificial). Thanks
Casch Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Be honest. Send her an e-mail, tell her you noticed her in class and are interested in taking her out sometime. What's the worst that can happen?
Art_Critic Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 I would first ask a bunch of people who might know her for a way to either find out where you can "run" into her or find her phone number.. She would recognize your voice.. but the email would most likely fail as you two weren't good enough Friends to break the email barrier.. If you can't find anyone that knows her then try the email
Lucasarts Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Would it be awkward if I emailed her, told her who I was, and where she could find a picture of me in the directory to recognize me, and immediately asked her out on a date in that email? I know it sounds lame, but I literally don't have any other means of contacting her. I would appreciate any suggestions for subtler approaches (that aren't also obviously artificial). Thanks yes it would be awkward and wierd you dont even know her what i would do is try to "accidentally" run into her a few times and start up your convos from there if the meetings are brief just ask her then when you could finish up this convo and then ask for any information to contact her with.
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