coasting Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I am in a very tough dilema here and need all the help I can get! My ex boyfriend who abruptly moved out 6 weeks ago to move in with another woman, leaving me a note on the kitchen table, mom has just passed away. I have been a very big part of her life for the past three years, and she was a big part of my life. We placed her in a nursing home in September. As she started to fail more, it was myself and my ex's sister who went to the nrsing home every night to feed his mom. after the break up I told him in an email that i was still spending quite a bit of time with his sister and mother and if it was going to bother him he needed to let me know. He stated that I was a very dear friend to them and that should not change. Here's the dilema this girl that he moved in with, has only been in the picture to everyone's knowledge for six weeks, and she will be at the wake and funeral I am sure with him. I have not seen the two of them together, as of yet and I really don't know if I will be able to handle this. Please help, what should I do?
Author coasting Posted January 2, 2006 Author Posted January 2, 2006 I am in a very tough dilema here and need all the help I can get! My ex boyfriend who abruptly moved out 6 weeks ago to move in with another woman, leaving me a note on the kitchen table, mom has just passed away. I have been a very big part of her life for the past three years, and she was a big part of my life. We placed her in a nursing home in September. As she started to fail more, it was myself and my ex's sister who went to the nrsing home every night to feed his mom. after the break up I told him in an email that i was still spending quite a bit of time with his sister and mother and if it was going to bother him he needed to let me know. He stated that I was a very dear friend to them and that should not change. Here's the dilema this girl that he moved in with, has only been in the picture to everyone's knowledge for six weeks, and she will be at the wake and funeral I am sure with him. I have not seen the two of them together, as of yet and I really don't know if I will be able to handle this. Please help, what should I do? I forgot to mention that this girl had never met his mother until the very near end of her life when his mom only knew who his sister and myself were!
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