que sera sera Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 okay, this might get confusing. I met this guy about a year ago and we really liked each other. We never "went out" but we kinda dated and then he started being really weird and after a date, call me and tell me he was moving away and it'd just be best if we never talked again. Then 2 days later he'd call me up and ask me out again. Being down right stupid and clueless i'd go out with him again. But this got REALLY old really quick! so I decided to stop contact with him completly. I started to hang out a lot with another close guy friend who was trying to help me get over this other guy. to make a long story short me and him started dating. (bad mistake) The first guy found about it and started to call me CONSTANTLY. I finally told him to go to hell. But one night he left a message on my machine saying he saw how i looked in my boyfriend's eyes and he knew i didn't love him. (he was kinda right) well, i broke up with my boyfriend because it didn't seem right. I broke his heart. Then to make things worse I started seeing the first guy everywhere. We started to talk and i explained why i'd stop talking to him and everything else. We started dating (actually dating this time) and then bam! He asks me out on a date one night and tells me he wants a break. okay... but he loves me and we'll get back together. okay... i'm so sick of this crap now that i'm just trying to get over him. But i still love him and now it's like we might get back together? I dont know. He told my friend we're on a "five-year break" sorry but that's something a little kid would say isn't it? I want sooo badly to just get over him and move on, but I think he's made things worse by not making it a clean break and leaving hope, but that's just like him. He works at the bank so it's kind of hard not to see him. I just cant stop thinking what i did wrong. I kept asking if he has another girl but he swears he doesnt (to be truthfully honest, i believe him..he's not the hottest guy on the block...(I liked his personallity..guess im not the best at reading people)) My other ex is now talking to me, but there's just no chemistry, he's a great guy and he'll treat me right ( any single ladys?) but he's just not for me. How do call it quits and forget about this looser?
Aimée Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 He seems like a loser, sorry to say this. If you manage to let this information soak into your heart, you will stop being in love with him and you will stop wondering how to get rid of him. You just get rid of him, that's it. He doesn't know what he wants, he says yes, then he says no. What do you expect from him? How do you see your future with him? Stay if you think he's worth it, but only if you believe that he's the best thing since sliced bread and the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. If deep down in your heart you believe that he also feels the same, then stay and give it a try, but be aware of his issues with commitment and that it will take a long time to overcome them.
que sera sera Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 my only worry is that I will get along fine without him and when he decides its a good idea to get back together, he'll convince me its a good idea to back together. He is a king at manipulation and im just not sure how t be strong enough first of all let go of him completly (which is what i want) and second how to keep him away and just say no
LN8840K Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 No Contact his game playing As*, I just got out of a situation like this ..this time the game went too far and I'm not playing anymore. it wont get any better trust me
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