riobikini Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 All: What are some of the mistakes you ABSOLUTELY vow NOT to repeat with any future relationships in the coming year? Looking forward to your posts. -Rio
Art_Critic Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 You must be writing a book I vow to not repeat letting my work interfere with the relationship. I also vow to keep my mouth in check.. sometimes I'm to loose with it and say things that I shouldn't
Ezydriver Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 Not to jump/rush in, not to move in with them after spending just 3 weekends with them previously, and holding back with telling any woman about how I feel about her, not getting involved with anybody still going through a divorce, thinking twice about getting involved with a single mum, and spotting emotional damage the way flys spot dog poo. Regards, Steve.
JS17 Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I don't think 2006 will be a relationship year for me but when I do find one again I will do my best to speak up when something is bothering me, I will not make the mistake of believing that others behave in a loyal and exclusive manner, and I will not ever again let someone treat me as if I don't matter.
lilmoma1973 Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I vow to watch what i say to certain people, so it isn't misinturpeted, and people get the assumption ,we got something going on!! All for fun !!
Ms_Sweetness Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I vow to put my foot down more and not let people get to me. I also vow to focus more on starting my career.
trone Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 never ever date with someone who is not emotionally healthy!!
amdaily Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Extend trust cautiously Guard your sexuality When someone tells you they are crazy, believe it
Nikita20 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Not be so giving. Be more independent and not let my world revolve around theirs. Love myself and not be so critical of myself. Maintain my friendships and not lose contact with my friends when I become involved with someone.
JUSTME3 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 I wont listen to what someone says unless it is consistent with their actions.
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 1) Be more patient 2) Don't give in to needless worry 3) Be less suspicious of others
lilmoma1973 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 I wont listen to what someone says unless it is consistent with their actions. I hear ya on that!! Meaning my h!!!
chocolate_boy Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Take notice of red flags at the start of a relationship! Although I was single for most of 2003 and 2004, I also reckon 2006 will be a single year for me too, I'm maybe gonna move city again in the summer so pointless getting into anything.
Brittanyjean06 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Not to let the rebound feelings overcome you ! lol there not real-
justagirliegirl Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 treat myself with respect and value myself more. Not do all the work in a relationship
Just Visiting Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 1. Maintain own identity and interests. 2. Not be so quick in cohabitating. 3. Speak up when boundaries are being crossed. 4. Don't be sucked into all the drama..life is too short.
ElizabethH Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 To not love so easily To speak up more directly To realize that someone's behavior has little to do with me To not date someone who has lots of baggage Thank you Rio for the cool exercise!
sick of it Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 not to assume how someone feels, not to take things for granted...though now its too late
skeptik224 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 ..To protect my heart ..not get involved with emotionally unhealthy ..realize that I have no control over other people ..to take things with a grain of salt but most of all... I vow to take care of me!
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 Stop beating myself up over 2005 failed relationships. Start being true to myself, be more patient, don't jump to conclusions when he can't commit to a 'next date'. No more meaningless sex, no more FWB relationships. No more dating for the sake of dating...I have to at least be interested. Be patient.
Geoffrey Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 I vow NEVER to warm up a loaf of french bread in the oven by setting the temperature to "broil."
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 not try and forget my ex as its impossible try and drink a lot less or give up as i've hit the drink hard since our breakup try and still maintain my musical interests ( this is a difficult one as my ex does the same music scene and i have debated giving it up but i don't want to! ) try and get interested in my old sport which a few years ago was the stability of my life start my business as hard as it is for me at the minute ( feels impossible! ) stay alive and hopefully become happier someday
Lishy Posted January 4, 2006 Posted January 4, 2006 Not to be a FWB Not to jump into bed with a guy too quick Appreciate time with myself and my son Make myself happy
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