A Beer Drinker Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Is this possible? Here is the quick run down: I was married for nine years. This october my wife told me she was not in love with me anymore and that she had an affair. We signed divorce paperwork three weeks ago and we will be filing the first of the year. Now the complicated part: I recently got a myspace account. It is amazing the friends that come out of the wood work there! Me and a girl I have know for ten years started talking. She was my wifes friend but they have not talked in three years. While I was married we spent alot of time together. She started expressing her feelings for me and said she had always had a crush on me, but at the time we were both involved (Married). She has been living with the father of her boy for sometime, but said their relationship really ended over the summer. One thing led to another and I told her my ture feelings and how I always had a thing for her too. So, yesterday she told the guy she has been living with that she is breaking it off for good with him. Last night me and her got together. It was the most amazing thing I have ever experienced. She stimmulates me both menatlly, physically and spiritually. Needless to say I did not sleep last night and she left my house at 5:30 this morning. I got a call around 10:00 stating that the guy she has been with hacking into her in box and read all of our correspondence. *sigh* Just in two weeks of talking and one night together I am falling for her hard! It is kinda scary as I do not think I ever felt this way about my wife the entire time we were together. Is it possible to falll in love so quick? Sorry if this is not in the proper thread.
l13578920001 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 You could be that your just hurt, I know I have found love in a lot of the wrong places when I am upset. But what do I know Just take it slow. If she feels the same way she has got to get rid of this guy. In life you can never force anything. THe world is way to big. You have got to let things happen. You can help things along, never force however. Do not however obsess and think she is some amazing thing, that could scare her off
Neptune Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Love is a word that has many definitions. Your experience definitely fits into one definition. Let`s hope you have found the love of your life!
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