willowfei Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Okay, first off I would like to thank anyone who is reading this. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He's a great guy, but he's not good with showing emotion towards me. He's never the one to tell me that I love him, but only with me telling him first. I love him, but i do not believe that i am in love with him. He works full times at night and I go to college fulltime during the day, I work parttime, etc. He is used to seeing me all of the time (I used to live with him, but I'm moving back into the dorms because I neglected school too much and my parents are helping to support me financially) but now I can only see him once or twice a week because I am always busy with school or family. I love him to death (but not in love) but I can't see this working out because he wants to see him all the time, and he can't deal with seeing me once or twice a week. (when i say once or twice, it means he wants all day with me, and i can only spend all day with him twice a week, he says that it's not worth seeing me for a couple hours so that's why i don't see him the other days) Is it worth breaking up if I can't see him? We've been together for so long so I can't imagine not being with him, but at the same time the relationship is very straining because i'm only 20 years old and it's come to the point where i feel like an old woman and there's no passion in our relationship anymore. sorry for my thoughts not wellplaced in this. i'd really appreciate anyone's opinion.
bullitt6109 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Sounds kinda like what happend to me in a way. If you love him and he loves you do whatever it take to make it work. If its to much of a hassle for either one of you two then its not worth it. I know that I would want to see my gf even if it was for just two hours. I think you guys just need to do your own thing for a while and maybe if there was anything there when things settle you will come back to each other.
l13578920001 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 if he truly want him and he truly wants you you will make it work. Honestly, tell him how you feel, if you truly loved him you would make time for him just like he is making time for you. Call more, there a lot of more options than taking a break. Do not do the typical thing of thinking about a problem by yourself and then just break up. You need to think of the problem together. Tell him you have to work to make this better. If he can't help than you both of you owe it to each other to find other people
pretty_petal Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 Well they do say 'where theres a will, theres a way' ... so if you want to make it work enough then you will... but i'm in a similar situation. Been with my bf nearly 3 years and i don't know what to do either! ppx
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