Jadey Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Ok things are looking pretty good between me and my ex. We are now on speaking terms (HE broke NC not me.) he has apoligised for his past behaviour, seems generely (sp??) interested in me life and is being very nice. I dunno what he wants, maybe it is just friendship ut we're on speaking terms which i am happy with whatever cause i don't want NC nomore (we done it for 3 months) But i do want him back badly and was wonderin what i should do from here to up any chances of us getting abck together? I am pretty sure that reason why he dumoed me was because i was too serious, too fast. So what to do to get him back then? When we do text eachother i'm pretty much everytime been out or had a friend round and have told him so, so i'm pretty confident he gets the impression i'm happy and getting on with my life. Any advice please guys?
l13578920001 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 First of all NEVER BLAME YOURSELF, if they truly cared about you they would try to fix it with you rather than break up easier said than done right? you will never forgive yourself if you do not try. If I were you I would not fool around with him for a while. I am talking like three months. If you want to start dating again tell him to meet you for dinner. Do not jump into things. Start very slow with fooling around especially. If he loves you again and realizes his mistake, he will wait for you. Make him wait is the only way to see if he is genuine
ElizabethH Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 I agree with the previous posting. Take it really slow. Be casual and light hearted. It's different the second time around b/c you know each other a bit and each others' strenghths and weaknesses. Be casual. It seems like there is a natural intensity and fire between you two. Go slow so the fire can be one that lasts.
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